Today you will give up and let go of the things that don't let you grow, that don't let you be YOU. Are you ready?
You keep so many unnecessary moments inside you that cause you pain, stress, disappointments. Instead of letting them go and moving on, you cling to them as if you can't live without them. Really? NO. Not anymore. It was enough. Be happy because you are the best version of yourself. Are you! Here are 15 things to give up if you want to be happy.
1. Let go of the need to always be right
It's not worth it to cause pain to yourself and others, or to lose your partner, friends, yourself because of it. Let people be who they are, accept that they have different opinions than you, and that doesn't mean theirs or yours are wrong.
2. Stop blaming others
Don't blame others for things that don't go according to plan in your life, for things that don't make you feel good. Take responsibility for your life.
3. Let go of your negative and belittling thoughts
Don't believe everything your mind tells you, especially if it's negative and looking for the bad in everything and everyone. Drop them. Get them out of your head.
4. Let go of limiting beliefs about what you can and cannot do...
... to achieve whether something is or is not possible. You are not in the wrong place at the wrong time. You are here and you can achieve everything you want, just allow yourself to fly above the limits.
5. Stop complaining
You complain about so many small, insignificant things: people, situations, events that make you sad and depressed. Remember, no situation can make you unhappy if you don't let it! Your view of the situation, your emotions, your thoughts are important... You decide how you see what is happening through your life (emotional) "glasses". Think positive!
6. Stop criticizing things
People, anyone who thinks and is different than you. We are all different, but in essence we are so similar. Everyone would like to love, be happy, loved, accepted, understood. We all want something, and we all want something, without exception. Be aware of this.
7. Quit proving yourself to others
Don't try to be someone else just to please others. The moment you stop doing that, the moment you drop your mask and accept yourself, love yourself the way you are, life will send people your way who like you just the way you are, imperfect.
8. Stop resisting change because change is good
They will help you move forward to improve your life. Follow your heart and change will follow. Believe it!
9. Let go of labels
Don't label things, people you don't understand, you think are strange, bad. Rather, open your mind, engage your mind and grow.
10. Let go of your fears
Fears are just an illusion, they don't exist, you built them yourself. They gave birth in your mind because you let them. Change your thoughts and the walls of fear will slowly disappear.
11. Drop the excuses
Box them up and tell them they're fired. You don't need them anymore. Many times we arm ourselves with endless excuses: I won't do it, I can't, I don't know - with excuses that 99,9% are not true at all.
12. Let go of the past
It is hard. Especially if you are afraid of the future. Remember, there is no past and no future, all you have is now, this moment. The past was, you can't go back to it. Live now.
13. Let go of attachment
Don't mistake attachment for love. Attachment comes from fear. But love is pure, kind. Where there is fear, there is no love, and where there is love, there is no fear.
14. Let go of the need for control
You can't control everything that happens to you. Allow others to be who they are, that there is nothing wrong with them living outside of your control.
15. Do not live as others expect of you, because you are not living their life, but your own
Listen to your inner voice. You only have one life, the one you're living right now, live it your way, no matter how many mistakes you make. You will, not others. Don't let their expectations get in the way of your dreams.
Be what you are! Imperfectly perfect. Just the way you are, you are the BEST and PERFECT for someone!
