Recent research shows that men over the age of 35 are becoming more and more difficult to get married and less and less jumping into the marital "yoke". Why?!
Just a few decades ago, it was normal for men and women to marry at 25. Today, this is no longer the case: very few people decide to get married in their 20s. Many are still single, even if they are 35 and older. It is also increasingly happening that after the age of 35, men find it more and more difficult to decide to get married!
And these are the reasons why.
The real man hasn't woken up yet.
One of the reasons why men today do not decide to get married is that they are protected by their parents and the REAL man, a man ready for family and obligations, has not yet awakened in them. They still feel too young to enter married life and put on "shackles".
Negative experiences
Even if the man was not married, he may have had negative experiences in a relationship of several years that ended unhappily. Because of this, a man fears that his marriage will become a burden, so he does not choose it. Bad experiences and so-called internal wounds are often the reason why men do not want to get married.
Maternal toxic effect
Parents, most often the mother, can be the cause of failure in a man's personal life. Mom may reject the girls she brings home or warn him that a certain girl is not for him. "None are good enough for my son," is a common phrase. Eventually, the possessive mother drives the girls away, and there are few who will be ready to go to war with the mother-in-law.
A possessive mother can also have an impact on why a man does not marry.A sincere love of solitude
The love of solitude is not a myth, it really exists. Some men love the single life - the freedom to do whatever they want, whenever they want, with no one stopping them. This is typical for people between 45 and 50 years of age who have developed certain habits and cannot accept that anyone can change them or arrange their lives. Because of this, they are happy with themselves and have no need for a married life.
He has a hard time finding the right woman
Men who want a family but don't know or don't know how to create one have this problem. Some do not know how to approach a woman, how to conquer her, how to present themselves... Such men rarely enter into a love relationship, and if they do, such a relationship is usually short-lived.
After the age of 30, the party resembles an interview
It might sound funny, but it's true. By 30, both men and women know what they want from their partner. The party is thus more like a job interview. We weigh what can be gained and what can be lost... Therefore, it is difficult to find someone with whom to build a partnership and create a normal life together.
