Some signs of infidelity are so obvious that women should not ignore them: late business meetings, lipstick stains, the smell of perfume that you do not use, etc. But there are also more subtle signs that can indicate infidelity. Is he loyal to you? Pay attention to these things and you might catch him.
1. He doesn't respect his mother.
According to dr. According to Carole Leiberman, author of Bad Boys: Why We Love Them, How to Live with Them and When to Leave Them, women need to watch carefully how their husband or boyfriend treats their mother. If he is disrespectful to her, it is very likely that he is disrespectful to you.
2. He is a self-absorbed narcissist.
Beware of men who are self-absorbed narcissists and have no compassion. Men who see women as objects are more likely to be unfaithful. Don't try to change them or make them think they need you because they won't change. They don't even want that.
3. It feels important.
A study conducted at Tilburg University in the Netherlands shows that important people have more frequent affairs. dr. Joris Lammers reports that the relationship between power and trust is stronger than the relationship between power and infidelity. The best way to keep a man faithful is to become his confidante while not letting his power get to his head.
4. He has low self-esteem.
If he is constantly worried about getting old, losing his hair, or getting fired, then his self-esteem is most likely falling. He might try to fix things by having an affair, because that will make him feel more masculine. The best way to help him is to not compare his success to others and at the same time encourage him to achieve his goals.
5. He indulges in bad habits.
Men who drink heavily or even take drugs tend to have no boundaries and believe they can do whatever they want - even cheat.
6. He suddenly becomes very critical.
If he's never been interested in the way you clean your apartment, but suddenly nothing feels right or upsets him, then this is a good sign that something is wrong. If he is constantly criticizing and belittling you, he is probably trying to manipulate you to divert attention from his bad behavior. Before jumping to conclusions, try to figure out if it might be stress or depression.
7. He flirts with everyone.
If he likes to charm every girl who crosses his path - his mother, his sister, his friends - to the point where you think they'll melt at his side, then it's almost likely that other women are doing the same. Make it clear that you will end the relationship if he does not stop doing this. Men can be charming without cheating, but they can still be more cautious.
8. Always forgeta.
Did he forget your birthday, your favorite restaurant or your favorite taste? Did he forget his promises? If he pretends to forget his mistake, tries to confuse you and mixes your favorite things with other people's things, then this is not a good sign.
9. He is restrained.
If he hides when someone calls him, or doesn't answer calls when you're around, you might be concerned. If you regularly change your password and 'forget' your phone at work or in the car, these are reasons for concern.
10. Your intimacy changes.
If he is less loving but still wants to be loved, your intimacy is not the same. If you have concerns, talk about it. Tell him that he needs to be more loving, that he has changed, and ask him if anything is wrong. If he denies the change, be careful. Maybe something is going on.
