There aren't many things in life more complicated than the love that blossoms between two best friends. These are emotions that can develop suddenly, but often remain unspoken. Especially when it comes to lesbian love that sneaks up unnoticed, like a kitten quietly crawling into your lap. It's true... your best friend is in love with you!
But how do we know when that line between friendship and love has been crossed? Here are seven signs that can help you recognize that your best friend might be in love with you.
Is your best friend in love with you?!
1. The eyes are the mirror of the soul
"The eyes are the mirror of the soul" goes the old saying, and if you look closely, they can reveal much more than just color. If your friend looks further into your eyes, looks towards you when you weren't aware, or her pupils get wider when you talk, these can be signs that your presence is special to her.
2. A touch that says more than a thousand words
Have you noticed that he is touching you more often? Maybe he gently puts his hand on your shoulder, or wraps his arms around your waist as you laugh together. These may be signs that he is looking for closeness that goes beyond the boundaries of friendship.
3. She has become your love therapist
He always knows which girls are in your life and often asks about your love life. She's interested in your heart, and it might not just be a friendly interest.
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4. Your time has become 'our' time
If every moment together became more important, and she started looking for opportunities for intimate moments, not just group activities, then maybe she started looking at you through different eyes.
5. It's like your emotional radar
If she has become more sensitive to your moods, feelings and reactions, she may be feeling more than friendship. Lovers often pick up on subtle signals that others miss.
6. Compliments that go to the heart
Words can speak louder than actions, especially when they are spoken with sincerity. If the compliments have become more frequent or more personal, then she may be starting to see you as more than just a friend.
7. Communication on a new level
If she started communicating in a different way, more openly and emotionally, or if the number of her texts and calls increased, this could be a sign that she is thinking about you in a new way.
Love between friends can be complicated and requires gentle handling. If you recognize several of these signs, be compassionate and understanding. Talk to her if you see fit, but always respect her feelings. No matter what happens, your friendship is precious and worth keeping.
