It's not your fault!
Cheating is one of the worst things that can happen to you in a long-term relationship or marriage, and it's definitely not something you can get over easily. For some, this is completely impossible. When cheating occurs, there is a loss of trust in the partner. If this has happened to you (or if it ever does, and we really hope it doesn't), keep the following things in mind.
You never want to be like the woman he cheated on you with
Don't lower your own standards to be "like her". She is like that because she needs superficial attention to survive. But he knows you are worthy of real love and not something superficial.
Don't look for it in someone else
You want to be as far away from him as possible. Yes, you loved him, but there are many other and more valuable things in life than a man who put his feelings before yours.
Don't be afraid of what you lost with him
Look forward to what you will get and achieve in life without him. A man who puts his own selfishness before his wife's heart is not a real man at all. He should be afraid of what he has lost. Believe me, he's lost, he doesn't know.
It's not your fault
They couldn't prevent anything. He did this out of his own immaturity and out of fear of falling in love with a mature and fulfilled woman like you know.
There are people who love you. They love you so much that they will do anything they can to ease the pain you feel. Let them.
They will tell you how wonderful you are and that it really isn't worth being sad and heartbroken over someone who was so stupid that they forgot the love you gave them and who acted so cowardly because of their selfishness. And they are absolutely right!
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