Pamper your partner!
If you want to offer your partner a slightly different pleasure, treat him to a sensual massage. A massage that will reveal his undiscovered sensitive areas and prepare you to continue the relationship in the bedroom.
Although a little more time should be devoted to the massage so that the partner can fully enjoy it and relax, it is worth every second of pampering.
1. The room should be warm and cozy. Create a calming atmosphere with dim lighting, soft music and scented candles. Have your partner lie down on a large towel on the bed or on the floor on a carpet.
Always use a high-quality vegetable oil for massage, such as almond oil. Apply oil to the palm of your hand, rub your hands together, then gently and gradually stroke each part of your partner's body with broad strokes.
2. Although it is very tempting to have a naked, flexible body in front of you and under your fingers, at least in the beginning, avoid the most sexually sensitive areas. The goal is to relax, and especially slowly, to achieve arousal that irritates the erogenous zones. Start with your shoulders and back, then move on to your buttocks and the back of your lower legs. After that, have him turn around and massage his arms, chest, stomach and the front of his legs.
3. Start the massage with a light touch. Adapt your hands to the shape of your partner's body and slowly increase the pressure. Release the pressure before moving on to the next body part. Let your partner guide you through the massage and tell you what he wants. Adjust the pressure according to his wishes.
4. Hold your partner with one hand when adding the oil. Simply soak the hand that is in contact with your partner with the oil with the other hand and rub it into his body. Squeeze or knead areas, especially where you feel tension, such as tight muscles. But do not be too strong, because the purpose of the massage is relaxation and arousal.
5. To add charm to your massage, add massage oil to a small bowl and add a few drops of essential oil. These oils are highly concentrated and should not be used alone or applied to the most sensitive parts of the body. Lavender and geranium oils have a calming effect, marjoram relaxes tired muscles, and sandalwood oil relaxes and has aphrodisiac properties.
