Money is a word that evokes strong emotions in many people. Many people avoid mentioning her because it reminds them that they don't have enough, while others associate her with all the evil that is present in the world. But we have to admit that we all need money in the modern way of life. That's why it's important to change the negative feelings we associate with it into positive and acceptance, with which we will attract wealth much more easily and thus live with much less financial worries. Here are 4 steps you can take to change your attitude towards money.
1. Find out how you feel about money
To problem solved, it has to be found in the first place. If you are thinking about money you avoid, you may not even have an accurate idea of what kind relationship you have to him. That's why we suggest you start with a simple exercise.
Complete on a piece of paper strikes:
– People who have money are…
– Money makes people work…
– I would have more money if…
– My parents always thought that money was…
– Money causes…
- I'm afraid, if I had more money, I would...
– Money is…
– To have more money, I should…
After solving the task, try to say to evaluate from as much as possible realistic angle. They seem to you like the beliefs of someone who will achieved wealth or vice versa? The first step to changing our thinking is to let go of the feelings that hold us back at all we recognize.
2. Embrace reprogramming
It seems to you changing learned beliefs impossible or too demanding? It's not like that. Our brains work much more simply, as you might imagine. If we make a sentence constant repeated, we will eventually get into it to believe or act like it's true.
Go back to the previous exercise and the sentences that connect money with negative feelings, change it. One of the most common negative beliefs is that money it spoils. But it's not like that: only money reveals personality traits that could not come to the fore in his absence. There are many people who have used their money to charity campaigns, with which many people's lives were changed for the better. Believing that when you earn a lot, you will become completely another person, it is baseless.
Very common, and equally unfounded, is the fear of losing money lost. You will understand its meaninglessness as soon as you replace the word money with delicious lunch. Would you be afraid to eat a delicious meal because then it won't be anymore? Ofcourse not. Yes, financial disasters can always happen, but you'll get through them more easily if your pockets are strong fuller. And also, if you actually happen to lose everything, that there is no reason, so as not to strive for wealth. They really give us beautiful moments motivation, to fight on, but at the same time hope, so that the situation can be reversed.
3. Figure out where your beliefs come from
It will also be very helpful to know why you have to money like that negative attitude. Often it comes from education- if you were taught as a child that money can only be obtained with constant hard work, it's entirely possible that this mindset is in your brain the rest. The same goes for believing that the whole world is trying to get you cheat.
When we believe in something, our mind unconsciously looking for situations, which will be this belief certificates. Therefore, it is no coincidence that you always come across heavy duty and people who try you take advantage of. That is why it is important to have your own view change it.
Yes, there are people who do not have good intentions, which makes it imperative that you stay critical. But the belief that the whole world is yours the enemy, will work in your too bad and you too prevented, to accept many opportunity.
4. Overcome self-sabotage
Expression sabotage unfortunately, we all know it, but we use it when someone tells us prevent, to get something we want. You may wonder why anyone would do this to himself, but it is very likely that you are doing it yourself. The easiest way to find this out is exercise, in which you write on a piece of paper strikes:
– I deserve the money.
– I can earn money easily.
– There is enough money for everyone.
– It's okay if I'm rich.
Then ask yourself how you felt while writing and reading these sentences felt. It was for you uncomfortable or you even had the feeling that you were you are lying? Then you just found out the main obstacle, standing in your way to money. If you have the feeling that you are something you don't earn or these things you are not capable get, then your brain will unconsciously make an effort to that belief they confirm.
It is important that you these sentences you repeat, filling your mind with positively. If you are the words that pointed to your inferiority, listened as a child, it is very likely that this is the cause of yours low self-esteem. However, you must not let the past affect your current happiness. You have no such attitude you didn't earn it and now it's time to finally be away from him recover.
