Living with a loved one is the most beautiful thing, but it requires giving up and making compromises. Everyone has their own habits that they have to get used to. Efforts to make everything go like clockwork can be strong, but even so, it may not work out for you.
Maintenance
You probably know all those cute habits your partner has. But before they move in, they want to make sure they know everything about each other's lives. Let's start with what kind of attitude you have towards tasks. You will probably need to have a few conversations about who is responsible for which things in the home, as this is the only way to avoid dissatisfaction that will develop later, says the relationship expert Fran Greene.
Strange habits
The fastest way to put each other in a bad mood is through strange habits. Greene agrees that it's better to talk about it earlier to avoid arguments later. They'd rather figure out how to live happily under the same roof, he says.
Money
Talking about money is an awkward topic for many people, but if you're going to share living expenses, it's important to know what your balance is. Greene says it's important to have a plan for how you plan to spend money on living expenses, entertainment, savings for the future, vacations, gifts... In addition to your financial situation, it's also important to know how you think about money. The more you know about each other's financial ability, the better.
Attitude to relationship
It's essential that you both know why you want to live together, says Greene. It is also important that you both have a clear picture of how you feel about your relationship. If you're moving in together just to share expenses, then it's time to consider another roommate, says Greene.
What if it doesn't work out?
What will happen if living in a shared apartment does not work out? Before you move, you should be aware of what will happen if it doesn't work out. In this way, you will calmly accept the fact that you did not succeed. Think about how you want to live together. Make sure you are familiar with all things. Such conversations can be difficult or awkward, but they will set you on the right path.
