Choosing a partner is considered one of the most important decisions, and it is perfectly normal to be cautious about it. You must have heard the saying that it is not wise to mix personal and professional life. However, we have no influence on who will awaken the sparks in us, so it may well happen that we feel them with a colleague. We have prepared for you the positive and negative sides of a relationship with a colleague.
Many people consciously decide that s coworkers it just won't complicated. However, it has been proven that emotions they wake up the fastest, if we see the person daily and that's why it often happens that we feel the spark right there workplace. Then, of course, good is needed to reconsider and consider advantages and weaknesses of such a relationship.
Sometimes we feel the spark at work Photo: Edmond Dantès / PexelsPros and cons:
Although most people warn against the relationship between colleagues, there is a lot going on in it an advantage. The first is definitely that you will have with your partner similar interests, and they will also be very good for each other in terms of work understood. When you are faced with stressful projects or clients, you will surely relieved the thought that you have confidant, who will not only listen to you, but also to you helped. It will also be clear to your partner what yours are like career goals and how much time you need to invest in them.
Of course, there are also disadvantages: many people are most afraid awkward relationships, if the relationship ends and you still need your ex-partner to see on a daily basis. You may also be concerned that a potential separation led to problems and stress and at worst forced you to find yourself another job.
These concerns are justified, but we advise you not to look at a potential relationship with his in mind the end. Until awkward situations it can also happen if two people work in completely different fields and if they are enough with a potential partner mature, they can also stay in after the end civil relations.
Many people also worry that they would not be able to work because of their partner to concentrate or to make possible quarrels brought to work. In this case, it is best to think about it, if they were capable of private and career part of life separate and if a colleague was also capable of this.
Think twice before getting into a relationship. Photo: Jack Sparrow / PexelsWhat should you pay attention to?
If you feel that you are very connected you want and give advantages they weigh weaknesses, it is important to get down to the relationship slow. Colleagues first get to know each other well and thus judge whether this is the person with whom you see yourself in the future. If one of you is on a higher position like others, it is also important to make sure that when you are alone, the relationship is despite equal: you don't want a partner who, in private life, treats you as if he were your own the boss.
We also advise that somewhat you wait, before the good news let me know other colleagues. It would be awkward, if they spread around the office rumors, and you would then find it better to stay a friend. Also, make sure you stay at work professional: save the flirting for the time you two spend after the work day, and focus on your own at work performance.
