You have to be happy to be able to make someone else happy, and only if you make them happy will you stay happy too.
You've probably heard of some relationship or marriage falling into trouble over the past year, especially during the quarantine months. You may have even found yourself in a situation where being with your partner opened your eyes and you realized that maybe they are not for each other.
The reasons for ending the relationship are not related to the quarantine, they simply came to the surface of your problems, which were previously pushed under the rug.
But there are also those couples who are simply not used to spending so much time together, so they find themselves in a situation that is not natural for them and they do not know how to cope with it. They no longer see a way out of it.
If you're wondering how to stay in a relationship even when you're surrounded by breakups or bad relationships, read the tips below.
1. Learn from other people's mistakes
A smart couple is one who learns from the mistakes of others. If you witness the divorce of couples around you, watch them. If they are close to you, you probably have insight into their problems. You can talk about them with your partner, because in this way you can find out if your relationship is moving in the wrong direction. By learning from the mistakes of others, you can protect your relationship from the same fate.
2. Have realistic expectations
Don't dream about things you've never said out loud. Don't expect your partner to fill them in on how to read your mind. And vice versa.
If you want something - say it. If your birthday is coming up and you have some wishes, tell them to your partner. He will surely listen to you and remember that you mentioned something. Don't expect him to read your mind, in this or any other situation.
3. Make time for yourself
We are often slaves to schedules and we want to pay enough attention to everyone we love, but we forget about the most important person - our partner. Make sure you always have time for yourself, at least one night a week that will be dedicated to just you.
Organize a romantic dinner, cook together, watch a movie... whatever suits you. There are many options, and in this way you will nurture your relationship.
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4. Practice patience
There are times when you simply need to exercise patience. It is not always easy, but it is possible.
For example, if you don't like a member of your partner's family, you don't have to point it out all the time. Be kind but distant to this person. You don't have to make every member of your husband's family your best friend, especially someone you don't see that often.
5. Keep your communication open
Communication can be a double-edged sword. On the one hand, you probably want to have open conversations with your partner, but at the same time, you don't want to overdo it.
Sometimes a small thing can lead to a big fight if the conversation goes in the wrong direction. So it's a good idea to pick your own battles. If you really think something is a problem, sit down, talk it out and work it out. If you think it's something small and insignificant, then don't mention it.
6. Remember what a wonderful relationship you have
After all the craziness in life, you two are the most important. No matter what's going on around you, don't forget what a good couple you are. Keep your thoughts positive. Don't let stress affect your relationship. If you value each other, your relationship will give you a security that few have.
7. Hang out with happy couples
Hang out with people who are happy. People have a habit of taking on the characteristics of people they are close to. Surrounding yourself with happy couples will have a positive effect on your relationship.
