Don't run after someone who has decided they want nothing to do with you anymore. Yes, it's painful. And yes, it will pass. Just let the pain heal as soon as possible. Forget about him. Literally!
Many women try in every possible way to keep a man who has decided to leave them. No matter how tempting it is that you might be able to convince the person you like to change their mind and stay with you, it's still better to leave such a person alone.
Here are some reasons why it is really better to leave him alone if he has decided to leave you.
Don't ask him to stay
Even though it may be the only thing you want when faced with the departure of a loved one, don't tell them, "Please stay." It is important that you try to refrain from this. The pain that surrounds you then will disappear after a while, and when it does, you will be satisfied with how you acted.
You will find a person who wants to be with you
There is no doubt that if you stay true to yourself, you will find someone who will want to be with you without you asking. He will be there because he wants to be with you. You may be too in love and hurt right now to think about other men, but he really isn't the only one in the world and he's not worthy of your love. If he left, it means he didn't love you sincerely and you definitely deserve more than that.
One day he will regret it, but you won't!
It might only last a week, it might take a decade, but one thing is for sure - he will regret his decision. He might realize he was wrong and ask you to take him back. But you will outgrow it and realize that it was just an important lesson in your life. Then you will be happy with someone else.
You will become a stronger person
All that you are going through right now is just a small test. If you successfully resist your thoughts of asking him to stay, you will come out of the whole story a stronger person with higher standards. If you let him go, even though in your mind you really want to beg him to stay, you will see how much strength is in you. You will succeed. You deserve someone who will love you no matter what. Only you and vice versa.
