A mature woman puts herself first and thus makes her life easier. Don't invest energy in a toxic relationship. She is direct in what she wants and what she doesn't want, she has no illusions, she doesn't waste time. She is ready for a constructive partnership, concessions and sacrifices.
She knows what she wants and is determined to live it and enjoy her life. She still wants love, tenderness and warmth, but she is no longer the one who loves more and gives more.
So if you don't do the things listed below, you can declare yourself a mature woman!
You don't wait for his message
You call to ask why he's not answering your messages and why he's not responding - and if he didn't have time to let you know he was busy or didn't answer the call, then you don't expect anything from him anymore.
You don't ignore the signals that a man is unreliable, uninterested, superficial - and you don't want to deal with such men anymore.
You do not forgive forgetfulness and business failure
A mature woman enters into emotional relationships with mature men for whom there is no excuse if they do not know how to behave towards women and are unsuccessful in business. If he doesn't buy her a birthday present, or he's indifferent, he's not the man for you.
If you haven't built a career, found yourself and become financially independent by the time you reach adulthood, you won't support him, you're not his mother.
You are not silent when something bothers you
You won't shout and you won't be picky with constant comments and criticism, but if you don't like something, you don't like something. You will say this immediately and without hesitation. You will not wait for your partner to notice your discomfort, nor will you pretend that everything is fine.
You don't hesitate to ask awkward questions
Because when you ask an awkward question, you don't do it out of curiosity, but because you believe that the answer will give you important information with which you can orientate yourself. You also don't expect to hear what you want. The truth is important to you.
You're not jealous
His friends are part of his life that he had before, his job is definitely important. You have an understanding for all aspects of your partner's life, because you have a full life yourself, a job, friends, hobbies. You are not jealous of your partner enjoying being with other people. You respect his privacy and space.
You don't equate sex with love
A mature woman knows how to enjoy sex and is happy if she has it with a partner with whom she is in an emotional relationship. But he also knows the difference between physical attraction and love.
You want a partner who cares about you. One that is there when you need it. If none of these are there, it's just sex without expectations.
You don't try to impress and you are genuine
When you meet a new man, you don't try to act the way you think he expects. You don't think about whether something will scare and confuse him, you openly talk about yourself and your problems, about what you want.
You show both your strength and your vulnerability without hesitation or shame. You expect a man to respect you!
