If you haven't tried your hand at sexting yet, it's about time you did. This is undoubtedly true art of the 21st century!
If you've sent a sexy message that didn't work out for your partner, you've probably already given up on the idea of writing to him. So if you are new to this or have made some mistakes, we have something for you useful tips.
First, make sure your partner isn't in a business meeting so your sexy message doesn't pop up in the middle of an important discussion. Don't let him embarrass himself with confusion (maybe an erection) in the middle of a meeting where he's supposed to present his work.
Sex messages are a type vulnerabilities, because with them we show weakness towards someone and reveal our desires and intentions. So stick to a safe zone and don't expose yourself too much.
It's the essence of good sex great foreplay. Sexting can be a great overture and enhancer of your desire, so don't start too hard. Take a little more time and start slowly. You want to tickle your partner's imagination and let him know what awaits him when he gets home, so don't tell him everything right away! You tease him.
After that, he must confirm visually, what he can expect when he gets home. Take photos in sexy lingerie or completely naked, but be careful. Submit a photo without a face! Although it is very ugly, “revenge porn” can happen. Don't risk your ex and obviously angry boyfriend posting your photos tomorrow.
Remind your partner, how he satisfied you the last time you saw each other. Let him know that you remember everything and that some details are quite memorable and that you would be happy to repeat them.
Avoid harsh sentences, keep it conversational interesting and fun. If something or someone bothers you in correspondence, tell your partner so that he does not think that you have given up.
Correspondence should follow your rules and yours alone. Go at your own pace and when you start to feel sick or awkward, stop.
Below is a list of the hottest messages that will keep him thinking about nothing but you!
1. Innocent texting
The innocently sexy message doesn't reveal much and creates mystery. She gives him just enough to turn on his imagination and sexual fantasies.
1. “I'm so shy, but if you only knew what I'm thinking right now…”
2. “I can't believe how I feel sometimes when I think of you. Absolutely out of control!”
3. “Hey, I feel weird. I just took a shower and I'm feeling a little naughty. How are you?"
4. “I wonder if you are single now?”
5. "What kind of me do you like better? With make-up or without at all?”
6. "Forgive my curiosity, but what kind of underwear do you like to see on a woman?"
7. “I'm lying in bed with only a t-shirt on and I'm texting you. What are you doing?"
8. “I don't know what you did to me, but somehow I can't stop thinking about you.”
9. "Last night I had the dirtiest dream ever and I don't know if I can trust you."
2. Indecent messages
Naughty messages are direct and appropriate for those in a relationship. With them, you awaken lust and a strong sense of sexual tension and show your sexual confidence.
1.”I want you so much. Here. Now!”
2. “I like it when you do (this) to me.”
3. “Every inch of your body is so hot. I could look at you all day, and it still wouldn't be enough for me."
4. "I can't stop thinking about that time we (did something) ... (somewhere)."
5. “What would you like for dinner today? I have something that can be your dessert…”
6. “I want to watch you use me as your special toy.”
7. "I had a very naughty dream last night - and you were in it..."
8. “I love how you grab me by the hair and push me against the couch (or something). Your dominance makes me hot right away.”
9. “There's something missing in my life... Would you like to know what it is? You, deep inside me…”
10. “I admit that I am really naughty today and I deserve to be spanked. Could you do that? "
3. Romantic texting
Sending a romantic sexy text will let him know that you crave him and his touch.
1. “I can't sleep. I can't stop thinking what I would do if you were here with me…”
2. "I wish we could lie side by side...naked."
3. “When you kiss me, I feel like electricity runs through my body. It's so intense.”
4. “Love with you drives me crazy. It seems as if we are in another world, separated from all people.”
5. “I want you to touch me tonight and tomorrow and never stop touching me.”
6. “If only you knew how much I need you. The whole thing. And I would like to give you myself. Forehead. Every part of your body and soul.”
7. “I want to make love to you everywhere. In my bedroom, on the balcony, under the stars…”
4. Teasing with messages
It's similar to innocent texting, the difference is that teasing texts are more direct in a way. They act in such a way that he is also included in the conversation.
1.”I'm so bored right now and I'm not quite sure what to do with myself. Hmm... Any ideas? "
2. “Why does this upset me?”
3. “I can't take my bra off… It's really frustrating. Can you come to my place and help me? "
4. “I'm in such an unusual mood right now… I feel like I can do anything.”
5. "What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?"
6. “I watched the movie yesterday and I couldn't believe how intense the sex scenes were. Seriously. Oh my god."
7. “I'm not wearing panties today… They're not comfortable.”
5. Immediacy
There isn't a person who doesn't get instantly aroused after receiving a hot direct message. This tells him that you know what you want. What you want - him - and that you want him right now, now.
1. “I liked the way you (did something) last night. It turned me on so much!”
2. “I'm thinking about buying underwear, but I need a second opinion. Could you come to me and help me choose?”
3. "Tell me in detail what you would like me to do to you if you were around."
4. "I can't wait to feel you inside me!"
5. “Oh my god, I want you so much!”
6. “My body tells me it wants to be pressed against yours. No, my body demands it!”
7. “I wonder if you have ever done this (somewhere)?”
8. "Would you like to see me with another woman / man?"
9. “I was wondering what you prefer 'down there'? Shaved?”
10. "I've been thinking about you a lot... I want to know what is the most sensitive part of your body?"
11. "I'm sure he'd like to see me in this miniskirt I'm in right now."
12. “I imagine what it would look like on me. And I really like what I see.”
6. Funny texting
If you're a couple, fun texting will spice up your love life. If you've just met, don't use it because it could be misinterpreted.
1. “I want to know what is your secret fetish? You have to have it… When you tell me yours, maybe I'll tell you mine…”
2. “I can't stop thinking about (something you did)… Can you help me with this?”
3. “I know you've been thinking about me all day… are you ready to stop thinking and start doing it instead?”
4. "What is your favorite adjective for my favorite part of my body?"
5. “I have such a sexually oriented sense of humor!”
6. “Why don't you just have sex and stop texting each other? I feel so good. Especially if you're on top of me.”
7. “I wonder if you're as hard as (something) I'm holding in my hands.”
7. Visual irritation
Men are pretty visual creatures. They like to see photos of you in hot outfits or positions. If you are a couple and you trust your man 100%, send. Otherwise, we do not recommend it.
1. A photo of you in clothes without panties.
2. A photo of you with something covering your chest (maybe hair).
3. Photo of you biting your lip.
4. A nude photo in a provocative pose (of your choice).
5. Photo in underwear.
6. Tongue photo (lick something like his thing).
7. Photo in a sexy see-through shirt (or a shirt that shows cleavage).
8. A photo of you spreading your legs in sexy underwear.
