"The path is not written in the sky. The path is written in the heart." – Buddha
Maybe because of what is happening, you are anxious, stressed, afraid? What did you usually do when everything seemed uncertain? When you weren't sure about anything? You were unsure, weren't you?
You know, it's during uncertainty that you actually learn what it's like to be human. In the rush through life, you forgot to be human, you forgot to "live". You live out of habit, you do the same things every day, you forget yourself and others, you see only one way, the one that is the shortest. It doesn't matter to you if you hurt anyone along the way, you care about how others feel.
You forget to be human. Literally, no distractions, just being who you are, the way you are. No complications, without finding fault with the partner. To love and surrender to him completely. To show him your vulnerability, your "dark" side. To not pretend and hide behind lies or silence. No stress, caused by your job, or fear of not getting results, having too much work, hating your job but not leaving because you need it to pay the bills. No feeling, that you are missing out on something in life when you look at other people's profiles and their perfect lives on social networks.
There is something beautiful in uncertainty.
Now is the time to learn what it means to be human! Now is the time to remember values like patience, understanding, kindness, laughter, trust, empathy, strength, passion, vulnerability, respect...
Before time pulled you into its clutches and you got the feeling that you don't have time, that you can't act according to what your head and heart think, but only according to your ego. Before that time, those words meant something!
You are lost in the merry-go-round of life and forgot that these are the things that make you human, that this is actually your strength!
You have forgotten what it means to be patient. You want it all right now! You have forgotten what it means to understand another and to be compassionate. You forgot to get out of your little bubble. You forgot that everyone is fighting their own battle, not just you.
You forget what it means to be kind. Allow small inconveniences to confuse you and put you in a bad mood. Is it really necessary to get upset if you have a red light at a traffic light or if someone walks slower than you or if they disagree with you?
You forget what it means to be strong, passionate, how to be Persistent in what you have and who you love. It is more important for you to be better than others, to satisfy only your own needs, instead of devoting yourself to your partner, because he too has feelings.
Now is the time to embrace uncertainty.
Remember, what it is like to be human, of all the forgotten values, let them become your strength again. This is how you can perfectly deal with your insecurity; become a better person.
Now is the time, to remember again what it means to be patient. Friendly. What it means to trust. To be compassionate. Strong. Vulnerable. Passionate. This time reminds you that you have the gift of choice, that you have the opportunity to simplify things, to stop complicating things so much, and to choose to be different.
Be aware, that in this moment you exist, you live, and you cannot control life, you can only experience it. You experience it in different forms, good, bad, light, dark, rainbow, black and white, sunny... In any case, no matter in what form you experience it at this moment, you are only human!
And being human gives you so many “gifts”… The ability to feel, to laugh, cry, love and everything in between. Remember that, and remember it when you're on the other side, when you fall into a frenzy of negative feelings.
Remember how forgive to yourself and others, how to forgive yourself and others and how to forgive your past.
Remember what it's like to be alone and how to take time and heal your wounds.
Remember what it's like to be who you are, what yours is like the real me, no pretending, no running away from things and people in your life. How to deal with them and how to simply love them.
Sometimes insecurity hides beauty.
You all now have the opportunity to become who you've always wanted to be - to be the best version of yourself, for your family, for her, for him, for your friends, strangers and the world. Treat them with more humanity! With more patience. With more understanding. With more kindness. With more laughter. With more confidence. With more empathy. With more passion. With more true sincere love. Show them your vulnerability. Show that a man of values still lives in you!
