During these times, when we usually work all day, during dinner there is often time to talk about different things. What do you most often talk about with your partner during dinner? If the topics listed below are on the menu, congratulations - you're real Einsteins!
Often we just talk about how the day went. This is good, after all, the partner has to say what is bothering him and what he is doing.
However, evening chat is not just about who met whom or how crowded the road was.
If you talk about the things listed below, you are among the more intelligent couples.
1. Problems at work
After an 8-hour workday, it can sometimes be difficult to listen to your partner's problems at work. But regardless, we're happy to do it anyway, because maybe we can find a solution together. Whether it's small things like drafting an email for your boss or bigger things like giving a presentation in front of clients - brainstorming together can do wonders!
2. Social problems
Covid, the refugee crisis, climate change... Anyone who talks to their partner about serious social issues, will learn a lot about him and his views on the world. Of course, sometimes such discussions can turn into serious discussions and even arguments. But the risk is worth it!
3. Literature / films
Reading is certainly not something that everyone does in their spare time. But if you both like to read, then that's great to exchange literary experiences. Some couples can talk for hours about which director is the most creative or which actor or actress deserved an Oscar.
4. Health / nutrition
Are you talking about, say, how to quit smoking? Maybe it's time to start eating healthier? Which sport to play? Many couples don't talk about it. For them, everything is superfluous or too tiring, too boring, too...
5. World events
Whether it's politics, economics or sports. Talk about current topics it's about being current as a couple. Of course, this also shows what interests you and your determination in everyday life.
6. Finances
Talk about next month's budget. Saving. Does it make sense to buy a property? Whoever discusses (future) finances thinks longer than most other couples.
Of course, it is not necessary to discuss these topics every day. If one is interested in other things, there is no need to bother with literature or movies. Talking about your feelings, worries and problems is important for a healthy relationship. And of course also about happiness, satisfaction. Communication is the key to a happy relationship.
