Just what is this? According to the experience of many therapists who specialize in relationship problems, there is a habit that is the most common cause of infidelity.
Many people keep their emotions to themselves, which is especially harmful when it comes to negative emotions, doubts or problems.
Although you think you are with it when these negative feelings swept under the rug, to avoid a conversation or an argument, you are doing good, but in reality you are only doing yourself harm. Only in this way you postpone problems, which will come to the fore at some point, and then it won't be pleasant. Because of this, a quarrel can turn into a hurricane, divorce, anger.
Instead of open communication, the partner is usually asked for advice or comfortturn to the other person and that's when infidelity occurs.
So, it leads to infidelity avoiding conflicts and arguments. Experts believe that only an honest conversation can prevent adultery.
Before this conversation, you should ask yourself the following questions:
…Is there something I can't easily share with my partner?
…Why am I afraid to share this with him?
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…What is the key to my well-being and why am I not getting it from my partner?
Arguments aren't always bad and it's natural that they happen, so you should neither fear nor avoid them, because it often gives both parties the opportunity to identify what factors in the relationship are causing problems.
But if you avoid them, it can easily appear resentment and contempt. Contempt is one of the biggest enemies of relationships and marriages. This negative feeling of disapproval, accompanied by anger and rejection, is much worse than classic frustration, because contempt indicates that your partner does not see you as an equal, but thinks that you are less worthy.
