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Do you cry at sad movies? Science says it's the best thing ever!

If you cry at sad movies, don't hide your tears anymore. Scientists have discovered that such people are not weaklings, on the contrary! These are the people who are the strongest!

Sad movies like Titanic have made thousands of people cry around the world. You are probably one of them. And to all those who until now claimed that only weaklings cry at movies, we will prove the opposite. Paul J. Zak from Claremont University, he did research, who confirmed that people who have developed empathy cry at movies. These are also people who know each other cope better with emotions and are stronger when it comes to dealing with everyday challenges. What exactly happens when we cry at a movie?

People who have developed empathy cry at movies.
People who have developed empathy cry at movies.

1. We know it's just fiction, but we just have to show our feelings

Zak claims that we know the story we're following in the movie is fictional and not real (well, maybe it was once), but we just have to cry at the emotional scenes.

2. It's all oxytocin's fault

It's the hormone that controls our neurotransmitters when we watch something moving. Through it, we connect with the story and feelings of others. This hormone makes us empathize and become sensitive to the suffering of others, while at the same time this hormone makes us happy.

3. We are not afraid to show our emotions

Those who are not embarrassed to cry when something moves them are actually psychologically stronger than those who hide their feelings. Therefore, they are braver and ready to show what they feel without fear of being judged. This too is due to oxytocin, which allows us to stand up for what we believe is right!

We are not afraid to show our emotions.
We are not afraid to show our emotions.

4. The power of tears

Zak proved that those who weep openly know the healing power of tears. Crying connects us to others and teaches us what positively or negatively affects our environment, and we then become sensitive to it.

5. We don't suppress our emotions

These are people who know that sometimes it is necessary to take some time to understand what is happening to them and express it through tears. This leads to greater emotional stability, which is why these people are stronger than those who hide their emotions.

6. We don't care about the prejudices or expectations of others

We've all heard a hundred times that "big boys" don't cry. Many boys are taught from a very early age that showing emotion and crying in public will make them weak. But this is a natural human reaction that has nothing to do with gender!

We don't care about the prejudices or expectations of others.
We don't care about the prejudices or expectations of others.

7. We will experience life in all its depth

Oxytocin is also linked to whether we are willing to trust others. And those who trust more easily have high levels of this neurotransmitter and form deeper friendships and relationships. These are people who know how to recognize the value of those around them. Such people live a deeper life compared to those who do not need to trust others and are therefore often distrustful and stressed in relationships.

Here are some movies that will make you cry crocodile tears

Love Story (1970)


A touching love story between rich man Oliver and intelligent middle-class Jenny. Despite the opposition of Oliver's father, the young couple get married and live an idyllic life until tragedy strikes. Jenny is suffering from a deadly disease and doesn't have much time left.

Hand in hand (Stepmom, 1998)


Anna and Ben can't come to terms with the fact that their father Luke and mother Jackie have separated, and there is now a new woman in their father's life, Isabel. Despite her efforts to make the child feel good in her company, Jackie thinks that Isabel does not do enough for good relationships. When Jackie learns that she has a tumor that could be deadly, the conflict only deepens.

My Girl (1991)


After the death of her mother, exuberant Vada lives with her father Harry, the owner of a funeral home. When Shelly enters his life, Vada becomes jealous and does everything in her power to keep them apart.

The Wind in My Wings (Beaches, 1988)


The film is a story about the friendship of two women from different backgrounds, whose friendship has lasted for 30 years. A privileged rich woman and a cynical entertainer thus share a turbulent but strong friendship that can only be separated by tragedy.

A Walk to Remember (2002)


An emotional and moving romantic drama follows young Landon, guilty of injuring his peer, who is punished by forced charity work. While participating in the drama section, he is attracted to the reserved Jamie, the daughter of a Protestant priest, who is often the target of ridicule. But Landon does not yet know that his beloved is dying.

Me Before You (2016)


Due to a combination of circumstances, lovely Lou ends up in the mansion of the wealthy Will, who is completely crippled after a car accident, and at the same time suffers mentally, as he has lost the will to live. Lou soon softens and wins his heart. Together, they embark on a romantic adventure that does not necessarily have a happy ending.

The Theory of Everything (2014)


The film focuses on the life of legendary astrophysicist Stephen Hawking. We meet him during his university years, when he also falls in love with Jane. The young couple's happiness is short-lived; At the age of 21, Stephen is diagnosed with the insidious neurological disease ALS. Although his body is failing, he and Jane marry and Stephen continues his scientific research.

PS I Love You (2007)


Holly unexpectedly loses her beloved husband. Crushed and devastated, she receives a birthday present from her husband before he died, followed by more letters that guide Holly through the grieving process.

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