Sometimes we love people who are not right for us. Maybe it's a combination of circumstances or wild emotions. Maybe loneliness or disappointment is to blame. But maybe it's just something that felt real.
Fall in love with everything you've got. Without thinking, with the whole being, just like that without reason. Into someone whose words wrap around your heart. Get lost for a moment. For a moment you were sure everything was perfect. But then everything came crashing down.
The person was not what they pretended to be or what they pretended to be. She was not the honest, loyal, loving person you admired. She was not what you believed.
And that's how it ended. A hurricane. A storm. A mess. A bunch of mixed feelings and guilt and frustration.
You couldn't help but feel stupid for believing her words, for trusting someone you didn't even really know. But that's love. Trust. To believe in the goodness of someone else's heart.
When you left, that person said to you, words that you will never forget: "No one will ever love you the way I love you."
He/she will love me more, better! Photo: Candice Picard/UnsplashThose words gnawed at your heart. You took them as truth, without question, perhaps because you felt wounded and weak. Or, because you were caught up in the emotion of love and loss.
Or, maybe because it was just another lie that slipped from her lips so easily you couldn't believe it. But still, you wondered if he was right that no one would ever love you the way this person did.
She was wrong.
Some people say things out of bitterness and anger. They think if they can break you, it will give them power. If they take their anger, pain out onto someone else, it will fill the hole in their heart. But it won't. This will only increase it.
With these words, you may even have been convinced that she loves you, despite the lies, infidelity, beatings.
But it's not like that, attachment and fear sometimes cloud your eyes, because the person who really loves you doesn't say such words to you when things don't go according to plan. She will not tell you that you are not worthy of love - they will be love!
We are all worthy of love, anyone who says it isn't is toxic. If someone said something like that to you - leave, say goodbye. Go to someone who will give you their whole heart without lies, deception or mean words.
Let them go because they don't deserve you. They never deserve you. All you can say to them is: "You're right. No one will love me like you do. They will love me more!”
Someone will love you unconditionally, without lies. Someone will love you even when you face hard times. He will love to have all your imperfections and show you his. Someone will - simply love you!
