Men believe that every woman should know these things about a relationship. And we can agree.
It is mostly women who try to teach men important things in a relationship – openness, communication, compromises, tenderness... But men also have something to say and think that we don't know enough about women and that we still have a lot to learn from them.
First and foremost - don't make rules, but agree
This is not an agreement that adults offer to children, meaning that the child must do what the adults ask. An agreement between two adults is something that they come to together and look for the best option that is acceptable to both of them. And then both honor that agreement. If the latter becomes too burdensome and unfavorable for one party, the latter has to request a new agreement.
Gentleness is important
The daily exchange of small affections is the pearls that you string on the necklace of your life together. Those who stay together have many happy and intimate moments, tender looks and touches, smiles, praises, which together are more important and stronger than those difficult and crisis moments. Enjoy each other's company and express your joy.
You don't have to end every argument before bed
The well-known advice not to go to bed angry is actually useless. If you are exhausted from the whole day's tensions and arguments, if you are angry and furious, it will be difficult for you to solve anything before going to sleep, because you are tired and exhausted. You are much more likely to be calmer and more able to think the next morning, and to be able to resolve the conflict more easily. It's not the end of the world if you end the day in an argument and misunderstanding - give a chance to a new day and new energy.
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Men are people too
They have emotions, just like women. It is only more likely that they will show them less, that is, they will hide them better. Many women are confused by this and yearn for a man to open up to them. However, they must realize that this is difficult for them and that it will require a lot of patience and trust and support. Many guys identify emotions with weakness, because they have experience in this sense - when they show their "weakness", women lose interest, because then they do not radiate the confidence that they like and that attracts them.
Actions speak louder than words
You can have meaningful and deep conversations, but if he's being mean to you, his "I love you" and all the praise he gives you is a cheap trick - he's just telling you what you want to hear. So watch it, take it to heart and appreciate what it does for you. Men show their love better than express it.
Note the following
If a man has not called you, it does not mean that he is not interested in you. There are many reasons why he hasn't contacted you, but the most common one is that he's not sure if he's interested in you. You can leave all the initiative to him, but if that doesn't suit you, you always have the option of calling him first and asking him out on a date. The advice not to give up after two or three rejections is also important. Sometimes a man also likes to make sure that he is desirable.
Don't think so most men are only interested in casual sex and that there are too few who are interested in a relationship. You can get such an impression if you mostly meet single men in bars, where it is more likely that they will behave (too) boldly under the influence of substances. There are plenty of decent guys out there who want to love and be loved and care about a stable and lasting relationship just like you.
If you have more experience with guys who hurt you, don't ask yourself what you're attracting toxic people to, ask yourself, why they are attractive to you.
It's okay if you have optional sexual relations, but don't think that you can get a man to be ready for a relationship with you if he doesn't want one. If you can't sleep with someone without falling in love with them and putting a lot of hope and expectation into it, then don't do it.
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