Avoid texting your ex or exes after a breakup. You never know how you will regret them in a while or in the very next second. Especially if the situation doesn't turn out as you expected.
Here are the 3 most common messages people send to their exes, but they shouldn't:
"I miss you!"
Before you send the message "I miss you!", think about whether you really miss your ex or you are just lonely and not used to being alone. It's a classic situation that sparks some form of relationship that you're not even sure you want, but it's there just so you don't feel lonely.
"I wish I could talk!"
If you want to talk about your relationship, don't do it via text. Better arrange a coffee and talk to him/her live. Although some things are easier to write in a message, don't do it. If you can't say something live, don't say it at all.
Don't start an argument
Don't criticize your ex-partner. Don't send anything that could haunt or embarrass you later. You must never send anything that could harm you. Your ex can use anything sent against you or show it to friends.