Motherhood is the biggest change in life. Along with happiness and joy, there are many hardships and trials, and moments of doubt can arise in it. Comparing yourself to unattainable standards can lead any mother to doubt her own abilities. In these moments, it is critical to step back and ask ourselves the right questions, not to continue to berate ourselves, but to gain perspective and provide a healthy, positive environment for both ourselves and our children.
Motherhood is a self-reflection that interweaves beautiful moments with izzi. The questions you have you ask in moments of doubt, can be a compass that leads back to the core of what really matters. As you navigate the rollercoaster of parenthood, remember that it's not about being flawless, it's about being present, compassionate, and real. Celebrate laughter, learn from challenges and accept the fact, that you are a wonderful person after all. The next time you feel like a “bad mom,” stop, think, and remember that they are yours love and effort the greatest gift you can give your children.
1. Do I care about the well-being of myself and my children?
In the midst of the chaos of parenting, it's easy to lose sight of the fundamental question: Are you truly looking out for the well-being of your children and yourself? Motherhood it's a journey, not a destination. If you find yourself constantly striving to ensure the health, happiness and safety of your family, you are succeeding. Remember that caring is a continuous process, not a list of complete actions.
2. Did you smile today?
Laughter is the secret to a happy home. It is a universal language that bridges gaps and creates bonds. Take a moment to think: Did the sound of laughter echo in your household today? It doesn't have to be a big event; it can be a shared joke, a silly dance, or even a funny face. Laughter is a barometer of joy and if is present, you are doing more right, as you may be aware.
3. Why do I think I am doing a bad job?
Self-reflection is a powerful tool, but it must be used wisely. When you feel like you're failing, you are ask why. Are these expectations realistic? Are they self-imposed or influenced by societal pressures? Motherhood comes with challenges, but acknowledging your efforts and questioning the source of your feelings can be a transformative exercise. You will often find that you are doing better than you think.
4. You are human
In our pursuit of perfection, we sometimes forget the fundamental truth: you are human. We are not infallible beings capable of perfection. Motherhood is exhausting, unpredictable and full of unexpected twists and turns. Accept your own imperfection does not mean satisfying with mediocrity; it means recognizing your humanity and allowing yourself the grace to learn and grow. Being a good mom doesn't require perfection, but authenticity.
