When we think of reading, most of us imagine an activity where we spend time in our own company. However, this is not always the case - there are many books that are meant to be read in pairs. We have prepared 5 books for you that you can read together with your partner and in this way connect and upgrade your love, understanding and everything else that can help you to have a solid, long-lasting relationship.
1. Harville Hendrix: Getting the love you want
The author Harville Hendrix, a relationship therapist, is Getting the love you want written with the intention of helping couples with conflict resolution and others unpleasant situations, which we still face too often in a relationship. The book was already a real bestseller when it was published, and what makes it special is that it is full anecdotes from real life namely the author's two marriages - one successful and one unsuccessful.
2. The five love languages: the secret to love that lasts
In recent years, psychology in the field of relationships has advanced tremendously, and one of the reasons for this is theory of love languages. Because we are each other different, are also different ways, which awaken in us feelings of love. Some people feel most valued when their partner hugs, others when he does the unpleasant work for them obligation, the third when them donate something beautiful... A book that will introduce you 5 love languages, will help you understand what your partner will like the most made me happy.
3. Sue Johnson: Hold me tight
Hold Me Tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love is the recognized work of a clinical psychologist and professor dr. Sue Johnson. In it, the author presents ways to improve the relationship with a partner and reduce and with respectful communication resolve conflicts and misunderstandings. The emphasis is on understanding each other and a sense of security, and we recommend the book especially to those who are faced with constant arguments in a relationship.
4. John Welwood: Perfect Love, imperfect relationships
Perfect Love, imperfect relationships: Healing the wound of the heart clinical psychologist and psychotherapist of John Welwood is another of the books aimed at couples who want to compassionate way improve your own relationship and communication. Focus on wounds, which we bring from childhood or previous relationships into a new relationship, which of course affects how we perceive the relationship and how we deal with conflicts.
5. John M. Gottman: The relationship cure
John M. Gottman is considered a recognized expert in the field of relationships, as his studies have helped many couples around the world. Book The relationship cure focuses on an emotional connection between partners and emphasizes that this is a skill on which successful relationships are based. But it will not only help you improve relationship with a partner, but also contains lessons through which you can reconnect with friends and family members.
