Believe it or not, you create obstacles for yourself to achieve your goals. Throw them away! Let's look at the reasons written by the writer Paulo Coelho, why your life's dreams have not yet come true!
Paulo Coelho is a writer who touches human souls and hearts with his actions and words. There are various life guidelines and lessons in his works that can help you bring to life the best version of yourself and achieve the things you want. It explains and reveals the way to the realization of life's mission.
But just reading is not enough to make your dreams come true, it is important to get rid of the obstacles and blockages that are inside you.
Let's see which obstacles Paulo Coelho particularly points out.
1. The biggest obstacle is the thought that you cannot do something!
You are taught from an early age that what you want most in life is simple unattainable. You grow up with this thought, and prejudices, fears and feelings of guilt erase your dreams more and more, eventually removing the last trace from your soul.
2. The thought that you will lose your love
If you have the courage to dig up your dreams from your depths and not give up the fight to make them come true, you are likely to face the following test – love. You know what you would like to achieve or what you intend to achieve in life, but you are afraid that if you give up everything and follow your dreams, you will cause pain and suffering to your loved ones.
It means that you do not understand that love is not an obstacle, but a powerful tool that helps you move forward. People who really love you will be there for you, they will support and encourage you on the path of development.
3. Fear of failure
When a person realizes that love is not an obstacle, but a help on this path, he faces a third obstacle: fear of failure and defeat! When you first start fighting for your dreams and desires, you make a lot of mistakes due to inexperience. But that's the point of travel! Seven times you fall, but eight times you succeed.
Facing challenges and failure strengthens you, makes you stronger, and when you overcome all this and reach your goal, happiness will be even greater.
4. Fear of fulfilling life's dreams
Just knowing that what you've dreamed of all your life is about to come true starts to fill you with a feeling of guilt. If you look around and see that many have failed to achieve what they want, you begin to think that you are not worthy of it either.
Forget how much you had to go through, what you had to sacrifice to make your dreams come true. This is one of the dangerous obstacles.
Only when a person realizes that he deserves what he fought for and that he deserves what he dreamed of, he will be able to achieve his goal and meaning.
Children give up dreams to please their parents, parents give up life itself to please their children. Pain and anguish justify what should only bring joy - love.
Maybe the whole world insists that your wishes are just childish nonsense that cannot be fulfilled. We kill our dreams because we are afraid to surrender to the real fight - the fight for the life we deserve!
