Most people hide their true qualities somewhere deep inside. A large part of their self-awareness is therefore kept in the internal durability of themselves, because that is the only way they do not reveal their most primary functioning. It is a kind of defense mechanism against the unfavorable judgment of others. But if you know what to look for, you can also recognize what people are trying so hard to hide!
Often their true face is revealed in the form of aggression towards others. If you keep your eyes open and if you listen well, you can see how people reveal their own shortcomings by trying to accuse you of "own sins".
Those who cheat will accuse you of cheating
Have you ever been accused of cheating? Many times it turns out that it is the one who accuses who jumps over the fence! Why they do this is not clear. One possible explanation is that they want to "even the score" and show that you are just as bad as they are!
Liars will accuse you of lying
In the absence of evidence, you are the only one who knows when you are lying and when you are telling the truth. What others will take from this is a matter of their trust (or lack thereof). If someone accuses you of being a liar or lying about something that you know is not true, it is very likely that they are showing you their true colors. As with cheating, the idea here is that such people want to distract attention from themselves and their own tendencies. And if you were caught in a lie, the scales would be balanced.
Insecure people will also try to make you feel insecure
Then there are people who feel insecure, so they do everything they can to make others around them feel that way too. Such behavior is the heart of every bully and his inner complexes. Most bullies have experienced violence themselves at some point in their lives. Such people will repeatedly utter some subtle remark that will hit you right in the face. But if you listen carefully, you will notice that they open a window into their innermost personalities.
At the end of the day, most of the bullying you receive from others is something that plagues them, something they feel for themselves or do themselves. When they accuse you of something that is not true, they are actually accusing themselves and admitting that they are that way themselves. So listen carefully!
