The next time your friends make fun of you for shedding a few tears at the movies, you can tell them you're not a wimp... and that you're hiding a big secret!
Many people believe that crying while watching movies is a sign of weakness, but this is far from the case. This has been proven To Paul J. Zak, a neuroeconomist from the university Claremont Graduate University, who performed an extremely interesting the study, in which he came to the conclusion that people who cry at movies more empathetic, but at the same time they know to a greater extent control your emotions and se cope with everyday challenges.
But have you ever wondered why are you often in tears in front of the small screen? Zak also reveals the reasons why this is happening!
1. You know the stories are made up, but you can't hold back your emotions.
Movie scenes may not be real, but that doesn't mean you can't react to them in the same way as if they were.
2. Oxytocin is to blame.
The hormone oxytocin acts as a neurotransmitter and is responsible for the feelings you feel when seeing moving scenes. Thanks to him, you feel more empathy, and at the same time, you are more open to change. As a result, your overall level of happiness also increases.
3. You are not ashamed to reveal your feelings.
If you cry while watching a movie, this is how you show your mental strength. You are not ashamed to reveal your feelings, which means that you do not care about the criticism of others. This is how the action of oxytocin is shown again, which makes you stand up for yourself.
4. Tears have a special power.
Tears also have a healing effect as they help you connect with other people and understand that different circumstances have negative and positive effects.
5. You don't care about gender differences.
Who says men don't cry? Crying is a natural response of a person, which is not related to any gender, so it is not something to be ashamed of.
More information:
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov