Are you afraid of emotional attachment? Do you run away when you feel that something more could come from a runaway relationship?
You may not even know that you have any kind of relationship problem, and it is not at all unusual for you to be unable to create a quality partner relationship. You may think that you are just like that.
You believe you have a lot of experience because you've changed a lot of partners, but you honestly have no emotional experience because you've never fully surrendered, because you've never let your feelings wash over you.
You never put another person before another because you never understood them or cared about how they really feel, what they want, what they need, and how you can make them happy.
Women can easily and passionately fall in love with emotionally unavailable men, so you probably think you have a lot of success with women, but sooner or later every woman wonders why she would keep investing in such a man. Why should she be unhappy and insecure if she deserves more. If she can have someone who accepts her and loves her, at least as much as she loves him.
If you didn't already know, you are emotionally unavailable, you have problems with fear of intimacy, wrong concept of relationship.
These are the reasons any woman will leave you. If you recognize them as your behavior pattern, then you can do something about it.
You don't want to plan
You may believe that you are very spontaneous and that plans kill romance. In reality, you just don't want to have to fulfill an agreement, you just want to make room for your impulsive behavior, and you don't even care how the other person feels.
Maybe it's time to ask yourself if the other person already has their own plans in which they need to find time for you or obligations they need to postpone. Start acting like an adult who knows that other people are not his toys.
Don't go on dates
Just invite them to your apartment where you watch TV, make small talk and have sex. And the sooner you manage to play out this scenario, the more satisfied you are.
You don't think it's necessary to blow her soul, win her over, go on romantic dates, bring flowers and dine by candlelight.
If she does, you'll start avoiding her because it's a sign that she expects something from you that you're not willing to give her, much less talk about.
There is no emotional exchange
You don't trust her and you don't want her trust. You don't care how she spent her day, what excited her, what she is looking forward to, or what scares and worries her. You don't really want to get to know her, you're not interested in connecting with her being, her heart and soul, if you already have her presence and her body.
This may be enough for you because you are actually an unsatisfied and unfulfilled person, but no woman will stay in such a superficial relationship for long. Women like intimacy and usually connect, share their thoughts and feelings, build intimacy and trust, which is not possible with you.
There is no regular communication
No communication - no emotional investment. You only call her if you have concrete proposals (about whose apartment you will spend the evening in), that is, when you are free and have nothing better to do. This is endlessly offensive and if you don't understand why, ask a woman to explain.
There is no tenderness
You may have sex, but no cuddling and no sleeping together. You always have a reason why you need to leave, to get away from situations that threaten to become more intimate. And this is offensive and clearly shows that you have a fear of intimacy.
You are not making room for another person in your life
You're not interested in meeting her or your friends, you don't go to family gatherings, in fact you don't share any scraps of everyday life - live your life and resist all her attempts to become a part of your life.
And that seems perfectly fine to you? Because of this, sooner or later every woman will leave you, because it will be clear to her that she has nothing to build with you, this is sad.
Maybe you're hooking up with women you don't want to get serious with, expecting that you might one day meet someone special with whom you'll want to build a future when you're ready.
Do you really believe that you will succeed with this behavior? You may fall in love and the woman will not even recognize it based on your behavior and will leave!
