"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." – Mark Twain
Love knows no pretense and lies, it loves even if you are not loved back. Whoever loves and shows his love and vulnerability is a man of values. A rare virtue these days.
When a relationship that never really started ends, you're left with a strange feeling and full of questions. You want to understand why even though you got along so well and connected with the person, it wasn't enough to continue your relationship.
They completely remove themselves from your life. Maybe they don't even answer your calls or messages anymore, but if they do, they tell you that they didn't want anything serious.
They were with you as long as you served a purpose, you were an object that you throw away when it breaks or expires. At the same time, they make you feel that there is something wrong with you, because you feel, because you care. They tell you that you are "crazy".
"Crazy" is the idea that it's normal to connect with someone, to be intimate with them, and then they don't care about you. That is what is bizarre and unusual. That is what is disturbing.
You are not "crazy" if you get attached to the person you share your life with. You are not "crazy" if you care about another person, if you show them your love. It's crazy that someone can put time and effort into a relationship and then you're just a ghost to them.
You are not "crazy" because you love. It's crazy that someone would love you only when it suits them.
Don't let anyone call you or your love crazy. Love, sincerity, trust, vulnerability make you a strong person with an open heart. They make you someone who will one day receive true love.
The way dating and relationships are done in these modern times is absolutely ridiculous. They're all perfect, they're pretending - they forget that people have feelings. They are playing the game that love does not exist. That casual relationships without commitment are perfection. They hide behind their search mask. Somewhere inside, they are looking for that real true love. But it's easier for them to lie and pretend they don't care.
There is nothing wrong if you cared about such people. There is something very wrong with people who give you false hope, who encourage you to fall in love with them. And then one day they're gone, like you don't even exist.
People like that don't leave because you weren't enough for them. They leave because they want to avoid being vulnerable. They leave because they don't want a serious relationship and they know it's wrong. But they shift the blame and look for it in you - not in themselves. They leave because they need to get rid of their demons.
It is not "crazy" to feel love for the people you loved. Never.
