We can all agree that deciding whether or not to get into a relationship is one of the most difficult decisions. There are pros and cons for both being in a relationship and being single, and even though romantic love is considered the most beautiful thing, more and more people are avoiding it. We asked what are the 3 main reasons why more and more people remain single.
1. They put their goals first
She used to be family the first thing people thought of when asked what they wanted in of the future. But times have changed and many first think of personal and career goals, which they want to achieve in their lives. That's why many people choose to single apartment: namely, they are worried about their relationship prevented, to really consecrated their ambitions. Not just to have for them less time, but we could not accept it in this way either career opportunities abroad, decide on risks…
Experts besides self-fulfillment needs this type of behavior is also explained by a phenomenon called freedom of choice. They claim that many want to as high a place as possible on the hierarchical scale because it will enable them to do so more choice with potential partners.
Many want to achieve their career goals first Photo: Fauxels / Pexels2. They think they are too young – or too old
Also age is what plays a very large role in the decision to be single. More and more people want to capture their youth with a big spoon, that is, to live it completely free. Many people then also focus on their own education and finding out, what he really wants in life. It has also not been considered unusual for a long time for someone to creating a family decide somewhat later.
Singleness is also increasingly common among to the older population: experts explain this mainly by the fact that older people already have a lot of experience with relations and them therefore they don't romanticize, but they are at new beginnings careful.
Many want a completely free youth Photo: Wendy Wei / Pexels3. They lack confidence in relationships
People stay single just because they are lost confidence into romantic relationships and over the possibility of happy love gave up. For some, this happened because bad experiences from the past, and some feel that they would have a partner who would accepted as they are hard to find. Many people who cite this reason suffer from chronic or long-term diseasesor emotional states and therefore it seems to them that many people I wouldn't be ready, to get in touch with them.
There is nothing wrong with feeling single he answers much more than a relationship. But if you are relationships you want, but there is a village fear, in order to not be able to find a partner, we suggest that at least give it a try and over people don't give up. It can happen that you will be very positively surprised.
