Use the power of your voice even in bed! Namely, in a language that only adults understand. 😉
It is the language of love or the language of lust, he says Denise Brienne, author of the book How to Talk Dirty. "Dirty" talking can improve our relationship with our partner. These are taboo and "inappropriate" words, which in this case are still APPROPRIATE! The goal of using them is to make our partner really want us with just one suitable word or phrase. Such "dirty" talking can assure us that we will get everything we want in bed. When we close the bedroom door and are alone with our partner, EVERYTHING IS ALLOWED!
"Dirty" talking is also easy for us increases self-confidence. So, not only will we drive our partner to (healthy) madness, but we will also feel more satisfied ourselves. The naughtier we will be, the better we will feel, says Briennova.
Women who use this kind of vocabulary should also had sex more often and experienced stronger orgasms, claims Briennova, but emphasizes that for good sex, more than technique or "dirty" talk is important intimacy.
"Intimacy is the feeling of belonging to someone, the feeling of warmth and comfort that occurs when we know someone well. It is emotional connection and mutual trust. Intimacy is the real key to good sex. And the more intimate your partners are, the more likely they are to try new things." he adds and explains that "dirty" talking is similar to sharing secrets with your partner. Only our partner knows that. He is the only one who knows our "dirty" secrets. We will probably learn something new about our partner, something that we might never have thought of (and vice versa). "Dirty" talk shows how much we want a partner, which leads to greater intimacy. Briennova also points out that "dirty" talk is not necessarily "dirty". "We can conjure up our partner's satisfaction in bed with sounds. When you sigh with pleasure, you tell him he's doing something right. The way you breathe when you close your eyes and let yourself feel it can make him feel like a king,” says Brienne.
It also gives examples of simple words and phrases that are not necessarily "dirty", it is only important that they let's say it in the most seductive way possible. So next time try this: "You're so good at it", "Don't stop", "Do it again", "Tell me how you want it", This is one of the reasons why I love you", "Look into my eyes", Your body is perfect.”
