Men often wisely keep silent about their sexuality, which is also why we women often sin unknowingly and do things that get on men's nerves. Sex experts have sorted out these 4 naive things that most women do, but which really annoy men in bed!
Sexuality it is the most intimate act that binds two souls into one. But this one can also have ripping effect. What actions can a man not stand?
Even if it happened decades ago the sexual revolution, who entered all pores of sexual life, and liberalized it, it is also to a large extent harmed women. Even today, in our society, sexual pleasure is the domain of men, not women. It is appropriate for a man to speak publicly about his experiences because they make him "better”, while a woman who likes sex is targeted as “vile". Everything also revolves around the male climax, which he has to take care of first, then the woman's turn. And she is the one who she was supposed to be in charge also to make her man feel like a king in bed. As the best. The strongest.
It is perfectly normal for every woman to want to please her partner, but the effort must be mutual – just as she makes a man feel like a king, so he must make a woman feel like a queen. So sexuality is communication. CONVERSATION and AGREEMENT about, what you both want.
Preferences differ, so it is advisable that you talk about your own desires, fetishes and tastes, because only in this way will your sex life worked. If you can guess what each other's desires are, you can hardly expect to be sexually compatible.
Of course, at the beginning of the relationship it is about such things more difficult to speak, so we advise you to pay attention to some things that in beds disappoint men, until they are close enough to talk about it spoke face to face.
7+ things in bed that turn men off or make men label such women as bad lovers!
You're comparing him to your ex
You also wouldn't feel comfortable if your partner mentioned that his ex was much better in bed. At least in the beginning of the relationship, it would hurt you. During intercourse, there is no time to recall anecdotes from past relationships, because his friend will literally flush. The partner will lose his will because he certainly does not want to hear how his penis is worse, smaller, thinner than the ex.
If you can't keep quiet and want to tell him this by all means, save these conversations for other occasions when you two know each other enough and the situation is appropriate, not during sex.
You use petting machines and shrinking machines
Most couples adopt a number of affectionate names over time that become part of the relationship and somehow seem like they can't function without them. However! Better not use this in bed. First: You probably already know that the human brain loves to hear dirty words during sex. Second: You don't want your partner to feel like a child. Reducers and fondlers, which are not suitable for bed, should be used in other situations, because they will have a better effect. Even more harmful and dangerous are the adulterants in connection with his sexual organ.
You don't want to talk about sexual fantasy
You must also reveal your biggest secrets to your partner, because only in this way can you experience relaxing sexuality and live it out. Of course, everything must be mutual. This is also why men hate it when a woman doesn't want to talk about the fears that arouse her. Namely, thanks to such conversations, a man can really satisfy his partner. In other words, he knows how to push the right buttons.
The promise of sex later - the promise of later sex
Your man wakes up in the morning with a lot of sex, but you just don't like it. Make an excuse to be in the evening. And then you don't fill it in, and even then completely forget it. Such promises of later sex get on men's nerves extremely in various studies. While he is waiting all day, you have no idea why he is in a bad mood.
You are judging his libido
Men have a higher libido than women, which is completely normal. But condemning his libido and even labeling it an "abnormal" high sexual desire is not good for a relationship. It can even be devastating for him! Be happy that he wants you and in no way and never judge his nurturing libido. His libido and desire is actually a compliment to your body and your sexuality.
You condition sex with his help in the household
Many women reward men with sex for their help in the household. This is completely wrong, because men do not want a reward in any way. Rather, a partner who wants them. And not the kind that rewards them! Such retreats often end in a dead end. Because there is no real component for success in them.
Passive lovers who lie on their backs
Come on. Get loose. If you're like this in bed, then it's only a matter of time before your man jumps over the fence and gets himself a woman who will really "stretch" him and blow his brains out. Namely, men extremely hate passive lovers. They want equally strong sexual partners by their side. If you don't touch, lick and sigh during intercourse…. Then dear ladies. Start practicing the basics! It's easiest to dry it!
We can't now! We don't have time!
It's the worst excuse why you can't have sex. In normal partnerships, there is always time and will for quick sex. Quick sex is often just the right release of energy! And the couple connects. Without fast sex, there is actually no healthy sex. If you always need schedules and agreements, your sex life can't possibly be good because it's not spontaneous. No sex has ever been good if it simply doesn't happen. That's also why "quickies" are mandatory!
You are selfish
Egoists are tiresome in all spheres of life, especially in bed. A man can lose the will to live, not to mention the will to sex. It is difficult to enjoy intimacy with a person who only thinks about himself. It's true that some men like dominant women who take the reins into their own hands, but that doesn't mean they also like selfishness. It is important that they provide double pleasure.
You are lying about protection
Lies are not only painful for the person, but also dangerous for both parties involved. It is completely unacceptable for you to lie that you have protection against unwanted pregnancy when in fact you do not. They both know that they should use a condom if they are not in a relationship but are casual friends. If you're in a relationship, you both know you're healthy, but you don't want to have children, then you should come to a reasonable agreement about what form of protection you'll use.
If you cheat on your partner, he will not forgive you for such a mistake, because you know that a child is a responsibility. And you also don't want to be alone when you need help the most.
If you recognize yourself in half of the points listed above, then it's time to think about your sexuality. No man can be happy with such a woman. And it's time to change something!
