You will regret not paying more attention, not being a little more sensitive and caring towards those you lost. You are likely to face tragic losses that are fleeting and completely senseless, inexplicable and unacceptable from a human point of view.
Ego and vanity will make you regret many times. That you didn't apologize, that you didn't admit that you were wrong, that you didn't correct your mistakes, that you didn't repay those you hurt.
You will feel this with all its weight when you find yourself in a situation where someone admits your mistake, apologizes and asks for forgiveness.
You will remember all those painful situations in which you didn't show your vulnerability and weakness to apologize. You'll wish you could do it.
You will regret wasting so much energy worrying about things that always worked themselves out and were never as dramatic and scary as in your fantasy scenarios. You'll feel guilty for ruining so many good times by worrying about results, things you had no control over anyway.
You will regret not doing what you dreamed of, mainly because of fear.
Surely you have thought about such things before and think that now it is too late. But the next opportunity will come, don't miss it. In addition, you can create your own opportunities. Thinking it's too late might just be a prejudice or an excuse for a fear you don't want to face.
You will regret not telling someone you love them. You couldn't risk being rejected. And you didn't even consider another option.
When you love someone for a long time, you assume that they know it and will always be there. And then it happens that someone walks out of your life and you wonder why you didn't hug him more often and tell him you love him.
You will regret not being there anymore for the people who are gone and you miss them. We could love them more, be gentler, more present, more accessible. You'll regret not hanging out with them more when you had the chance.
Love your neighbors, show them your love, with actions and words. Worry less about things you can't predict, be more with people who mean something to you.
Life happens now and doesn't offer many other opportunities. Therefore, open your heart and your mind, be present in your life and the lives of your loved ones.
