Partnership has unwritten rules! What if we told you that these rules clearly exist and that they can be written down. Many relationship experts have devoted years to researching the recipe for strong couples. And came up with 15 extremely simple rules that enable luck in rammer. Let's see if they are really that simple and if this is a recipe for happiness in a relationship.
These are the rules that enable happiness in a relationship. If you follow them - you can hope that you will achieve what all couples want - harmony!
1. They avoid deliberately arousing jealousy
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When you are in a solid relationship where you receive enough attention and care from the other person, you don't feel the need to seek it further with such low-level tactics.
2. They don't check their partner's phones
Your need to check your partner's phone shows that you don't trust them. Once you start calling your better half out of curiosity, sincerity has already gone out the window and every beep on the phone is enough to start a fight.
3. They do not compare their relationship with previous relationships
If we compare two things, we will always have a winner and a loser. Every relationship is different, and what made our previous relationship special may not hold true for our current one. Strong couples focus on the relationship they are in.
4. They don't disclose their relationship on Facebook
If you actually put such a strong importance on posting a relationship on Facebook (to confirm your status), you probably aren't mature enough for a real and strong relationship.
5. They know how to spend time separately
Confident couples don't need to be with each other all the time. The fact is, they don't want to be together all the time. They know it is important to still maintain their independence and outside interests.
6. They avoid pointing out the faults of others
No one is without mistakes. Strong couples know each other's weaknesses. Rather than dwelling on the mistakes of others, they offer their support.
7. They don't try to change the other person
You fell in love for a reason, not a "How to make him/her better" project. Stable couples do not try to change the other person's appearance or character.
8. They do not compete with each other
There is a difference between challenging a partner and competing with them. In the former, both are better, in the latter, someone has to lose. It's not about who bought what and what they remembered. It is a selfless decision to make yourself happy.
9. They don't set limits
By setting limits, our relationship cannot grow. So-called "rules" that prohibit another person from doing something will only bring resentment. If we are confident enough in our own skin, then we know how to hold back even in such things.
10. They don't embellish things
They are always honest with each other, even if it's not always what they want to hear.
11. They never insult their partner's family
Insulting your partner's family is similar to someone making comments about your looks or weight.
12. They never deny their affection for their partner
The sexual component has the same weight as the emotional one. Strong couples have a hard time resisting their partner, and it's even harder to be without them.
13. They never humiliate themselves in public
Deliberately embarrassing your partner - especially in front of other people - is the reason for the breakup of the relationship. There are other ways of self-expression that do not involve shaming another.
14. They don't constantly wonder what their partner is doing and where he is
Strong couples don't need constant contact. They don't spend time wondering what the other person is doing and where they are. A balance between thinking about oneself and thinking about others is necessary.
15. They never get angry at another without explaining why
We know that passive-aggressiveness never works the way we want it to. Successful couples are able to speak up and are not afraid of the other person's reaction. Holding onto your anger without giving your partner a chance to explain is not fair to anyone.
