What do toxic people do? Who are? Toxic people can't sustain long-term relationships, so they devalue and discard their victims.
Toxic people do not care about other people, because deep down they are not capable of love, they are just playing.
They never apologize because they think they haven't done anything wrong. If something bad happens to them, they prefer to blame others rather than admit that it was their fault.
They never respect other people's wishes or time; they have no regrets. They are disrespectful to the point that they know you are going through a difficult time, but they still take advantage of the situation to talk about similar things that have happened to them, or they just talk about themselves because they like it.
The worst thing is that his selfishness and introspection they cover it up by saying that they were just joking and that they were trying to comfort you with it.
Don't fall for it, it's their way of diverting attention to themselves. They are not trying to give you advice or make you feel better; they only indulge in self-aggrandizement.
When you feel that it is something wrong in the relationship believe it and go away!
If you don't, you will regret it for the rest of your life as you get caught in their web of lies and twisted mind games.
They get angry over stupid things and they expect you to ask them to forgive you, even though you did nothing wrong. This is their way of life.
They have their good moments that you cling to. Actually they are masters of deception and conquest. When you least expect it, they will break down and say that you hurt them, they will take on the role of victim. And you won't even know why.
You'll be left wondering just what you did wrong.
How to deal with toxic people?
Being in a turbulent ocean with toxic people pushing you in every direction with their emotions can be very difficult. They squeeze you like a lemon, so you have to defend yourself.
Create boundaries for yourself. Don't answer their calls, cut them out of your life. Give them nothing to feed on, nothing to talk about.
Accept the fact that they cannot change. Their good days are so good that you will want to let them back into your life or make contact, but those days are short-lived and they exist for a reason.
Cut out the toxic people clinging to your life so you can breathe and live again.
