"I'd rather argue with you than kiss someone else." - Unknown author
We live in a society where people have become accustomed to regularly changing partners. But when you meet the right person, and trading for someone else will be the last thing on your mind!
Of course, life would be so much better if we just accepted ourselves with all our faults, but unfortunately, that's not something humans are capable of doing. But if we really want a perfecting relationship, we will have to close our eyes, see through our fingers, and accept our partner's flaws. People who want to mold their partner in their own image or control them are not capable of a loving relationship.
When we talk about love, we have to find ways to come together, to complement each other, to accept each other. Changing someone does not and will never work! The people close to us will never be what we want them to be, and the sooner we face that fact, the easier life will be and we'll save ourselves a lot of headaches and heartache.
A real bond between two partners means ACCEPTANCE, UNDERSTANDING and FULL COMMITMENT. I have to accept my partner for who he is, and eventually we'll start appreciating his flaws. Our journey won't always be smooth sailing, but we're in this together, and that makes it easier.
The sooner we accept our partner as he is, the better. They have their reasons for being the way they are, and we have to respect them. If we stick with it, we will eventually find that we understand each other on a much deeper level.
We can overcome life together without having the same way of thinking. If we are able to communicate properly and solve our problems, it will be ours the relationship grew and prospered in more ways than is even possible! The more we contribute to a stable relationship, the better our lives will be.
Rather than torturing our partner, let's look past his shortcomings and place ourselves at a point that allows everyone involved to develop emotionally and spiritually. It's true, of course our partners will do things that can drive us crazy at times, but we have to realize that you're not perfect either.
The more open we are to such things, the faster we will come to the conclusion that it is ACCEPTANCE is the only way forward.
Couples can only develop and grow by trying to understand each other. And when we begin to do so, we will enjoy the fruits of true love!
