Just about every person who wants to be loved and loves has made these two mistakes in a partnership. She was not happy because of them! But nothing is irreversible in this world, so make a change because all that matters is your happiness.
Even the strongest persons who they respect themselves and its principles, they make mistakes in love. Because all those who have loved and been loved know that it is love can be blind sometimes - people are ready to suffer because emotions cannot be controlled.
If you find yourself in such a situation, ask yourself if it is worth breaking your principles, if it more than clearly shows that it will not pay off... and you unhappy.
2 biggest mistakes in love:
1. You tolerate your partner's mistakes that make you unhappy.
People cannot be changed - they can make compromises and adapt, but they will find it difficult to change their personality and the way on which they live. And that's completely normal. You will have to get used to some things (he will also have to get used to you), but there are also things that you just can't and I shouldn't forgive.
There are couples who tolerate every major mistake only because they are afraid of being left alone, but inside they are suffering. If there is no sincere regret on the part of the partner and will, yes will improve certain habits, it makes no sense to trust him and tolerate his actions.
If you make it clear to him that he hurt you deeply, but he continues to do the same things, you won't be happy. Psychologists say that this kind of ignoring problems brings dissatisfaction in the relationship and marriage in the long run, so sometimes it is better to argue, as if you are suffering and keep quiet about things that bother you.
If there's no way you can solve the problem, it's better to you end the relationship, as if you are unhappy and you are harming your psychophysical health.
2. You neglect your needs at the expense of your partner's.
If you want to establish a healthy relationship (not only in love, but also in friendship), you have to put yourself first. Women usually have the need to they please their partner as much as possible in all areas of life and at the same time neglect their own needs.
You always adapt to his schedule, you only cook what he wants, in the most intimate moments it is important to you that he is satisfied... and you at your own will you play a parallel role. These are all situations where you don't think about yourself, but you should.
Remember that they are the foundation of any relationship is compromise and equality, and you are just as important as your partner.
