Love is sometimes not fair, it hurts you and leaves a big wound in your heart. But you can also protect yourself from pain - this is how the man who will soon leave you will behave.
When a couple is facing problems, they are often not even aware of them...because it seems like they are they don't want to see them – it's quite clear that something is wrong, but they don't know what exactly it is. To help you understand, what is part of a normal relationship and what not, relationship expert Mark Rosenfeld defined some typical actions, which indicate that your relationship is likely to break up. Out of nine, we highlighted five key ones!
Mark does not claim that it will be because of actions of this kind really led to the end of the relationship, but the combination of these can represent an alarm, yes something is not working in your relationship and you should talk if you want to keep your love alive.
This is how a man who is about to leave you behaves...
They don't talk anymore.
When you're in love, you want to talk about things with your better half. Once you don't feel anything anymore, silence becomes your ally. If there is a lack of communication between the two of you and you feel like you can't talk about things anymore, it could be a sign that your relationship is in trouble. Happy couples can talk things out because they know that good communication is the key to success.
There is no trust between you.
If you don't trust your partner, it could be your fault because you have trust issues, but it's also quite possible that he gave you a reason for this and your doubts are justified. Fear and doubt are unpleasant emotions that you must face or you will be forever unhappy. It's okay to tell him that you don't trust him because you feel he's doing questionable things...and his reaction will tell you how to proceed.
They are more unhappy than happy.
The main sign that you are in a quality relationship is happiness. And if you don't experience it, there's no point in persisting. You have to learn that it is not just your happiness or his that is important, but your joint happiness, for which you are both responsible. If you see that you can't achieve it, even if you try, but he doesn't, what else do you do in such a relationship?
He doesn't want to make improvements.
If a man wants to work on the relationship, almost half of the work is already done, because you are well on your way to making your relationship a good one. However! If you try all the tricks that don't move him too much, in this case you're the one who will get the short end of the stick.
They are no longer having sex.
There is no rule as to how many times you should have sex, but it is clear that as a couple you should indulge in sexual pleasures. If you notice that your partner is avoiding intimacy, this could be a sign that something is wrong. Every couple should find time for themselves and connect on an intimate level at least once a week.
