When you have a strong, independent and independent woman by your side, it won't be the relationship you've had before. She is different. She is a strong woman.
If you are with her, it means that she recognizes your strength and potential, values you and believes that you are on her level. She will not put up with stupidity and tolerate weaknesses, because she needs a partner with whom she will develop and progress.
He needs a challenge
If you don't challenge her, her intellect, her spirit, her curiosity, if she doesn't have something to learn from you, it's not a relationship in which she can grow. He needs a challenge, he likes a good discussion that brings explanations and insights, he wants to broaden his perspective and overcome his own automatisms. If you warn her about her stubbornness, narrow-mindedness, calculatingness - she will seriously consider your remarks, and try to change her approach and discover new depths of her own inner life, as well as your relationship.
She needs someone who is as motivated as she is
She doesn't need someone to watch her back, but someone to move alongside her, sometimes running and leading, but also following when she takes the initiative. He doesn't want to force anyone to do something - either you are together (in love, in everyday life, in life's challenges), or he leaves you behind if you don't have the strength, the courage.
She wants an honest man by her side! Photo: Jonathan Borba / UnsplashHe needs freedom
It does not withstand restrictions. If she has chosen you, she will be devoted and loyal to you. If you're jealous, it's because you're not sure of yourself, and above all, it's insulting to her! Why don't you trust her, don't you recognize her dedication and value? This leads to the only logical conclusion that you have no ability to recognize quality because you don't have it. If you care about her, don't limit her freedom, and don't interrogate her. Don't put conditions on her, don't try to control her. Just trust her and that will be enough. She will never abuse and betray your trust.
Be the one who shows her the bright side of life
She is often too busy, too responsible and constantly has to make decisions. It takes time to forget that aspect of seriousness with someone and to forget about problems. Give it to her, offer her relief, relaxation, adventure, joy, play.
Be honest
He values honesty and directness more than anything else. He knows that the truth is usually harsh and unpleasant, but he wants to hear it. When he asks you something, it's because he wants the right answer, not comfort or indulgence. Tell her how you feel. Tell her when you do something wrong. When you see her wrong, tell her so. Tell her what you think about it and be ready to have a dialogue, without cover-ups or tactics. Even if you hurt her with your comment, she will learn something from it and appreciate your honesty and be grateful to you.
Be independent and self-sufficient
Because if you're like that, he can count on you when he needs you. As you can always count on her.
