Love changes the world, just like true love changes you. It changes your attitude to the world, your beliefs, your fears, emotions, feelings - you!
You become the best version of yourself, for yourself and for your partner. If you love someone as much as you love yourself, your ego will never be a problem in a relationship. Why?
When you love someone, you will make compromises during disagreements.
You will not insist that you are right. You will not stubbornly cling to your claims. You will not trample on your partner's opinion, even if you are sure that he is wrong. You will try to see their point of view because you respect them and you will listen to what they have to say. You understand that their feelings are valid, even if you don't feel the same way. Their voice deserves to be heard.
When you love someone, you won't reject their ideas.
When you love someone, the whole world is yours. Photo: Priscilla Du Preez / UnsplashYou won't roll your eyes when things don't go the way you wanted. If your partner would like to see a certain concert or performance, you go with them. You will always be their other half. You will do your best not to ruin their enthusiasm. You won't be constantly complaining or reminding them that they owe you something. You will enjoy the quality time spent with them because you would rather be with them than with anyone else.
When you love someone, you will do things you never thought you would.
You will agree to visit new places, try new food, meet new people. You will do anything to make your partner happy - and he will do the same for you. Your relationship should be mutual. We are supposed to learn new things from each other and teach each other new things. That's one of the most beautiful parts of relationships, the fact that you get to experience a new perspective.
When you love someone, you can't expect them to do everything you say.
You don't own them. You are their partner. Their teammate. We should make decisions together. You can still maintain your independence in the relationship without stubbornly refusing to compromise or see their point of view. Show them the respect they deserve.
When you love someone, it's equal parts give and take.
Love is giving and receiving. Photo: David Cajilima / UnsplashYou have to give as much as you get. Sometimes seeing your partner smile is more important than your ego. Sometimes reaching a compromise is more important than winning an argument. Sometimes relationships require you to adjust or meet halfway.
When you love someone, you can't be too stubborn.
You are allowed to stand up for yourself. You are allowed to have an opinion that differs from your partner's. You are allowed to express your opinion. However, you should give your partner a chance to express his opinion. You have to listen to their opinion.
