Your ex may have said a bunch of harsh words to you during the breakup that hurt your feelings. Even if it's hard for you right now, you shouldn't believe everything you hear, because his actions are what reveal that he misses you CRAZY.
The past is a thing that should leave behind, but in love the rules are different - it's impossible overnight to forget the man, who was once everything to you! But by analyzing his words and actions, you won't do much either: you won't didn't get it back no forgot about him.
You must have already encountered such situations:
- He liked your post on Facebook or Instagram, then unfriended you.
- He texted you at night, he doesn't want to answer your call the next morning.
- He will wait for you at the place where you like to go, but he will not greet you.
- He will enter into a relationship with another woman, but he will be aroused to hear that you too have a new partner.
All of these above signs, even if they seem to indicate that your ex is missing you again, they don't mean, that he wants to renew with you connections. The truth is, your ex is confused about his feelings—even if they've ended their love story, they are the feelings between you are still alive and he can't either just turn it off overnight; he fights with them, so he also does certain things that do not necessarily signal, that he wants to restore the relationship! A man who misses his ex behaves completely differently!
HIS FEELINGS
Hatred is an antonym for love. And if you and your ex broke up consensual, and he harbors negative feelings after the breakup, this is a sign that he is emotionally hurt. He probably had expectations that you didn't fill them in. He's emotionally upset with you because he can't control his feelings for you.
Think about it, why would your ex waste time spreading hatred and anger towards you? Because he likes it Mar, it is desired resolve emotions, who has feelings for you and is confused because he doesn't know which step is best.
What can you do? Even if you want overnight changes in your favor, leave him alone, give him time and space. Cut off contact with him and wait negative emotions calm down. There is not a single word that will turn his anger into positive emotions, so it is time so important. Time is the only thing that will be his turned anger into love – if it really comes to that, he will find out that you still always love.
HIS COMPETITION
There is competition for sure an immature way of showing love, but the ex wants to show that he is "much better off without you" after the breakup. The fact is, it does because you are constantly in his head and is looking for ways to arouse in you jealousy.
What can you do? While he plays his game, you try really improve your life. Do things that will make a difference in yours thinking. If he's really competitive, he'll probably find out that you are improving your life and he will question how sensible the decision is regarding your breakup.
HIS ATTITUDE
If you decided that you would had contact with him, even if they broke up, can go through his texts or speech you discover, what he feels. If he plays hot-cold game, the probability that he misses you is high, but pay attention to his game, because this one can also emotionally exploitative. If he only writes to you because he has some benefit from you, unfortunately you will have to forget about him. If he really misses you, he will have a hard time resisting and will write to you for no particular reason, just because he wants to know how you are.
What can you do? Be calm and do not take his actions to heart. If you behave yourself unstable, you will show him that you miss him too. Don't ask him questions like “why don't you answer my messages", "why don't you write to me". If he's cool, then be cool too. No reward his cool attitude by giving him you give attention.
If your ex does the things you've read above, there's a good chance he misses you, but you must not always take his signals with certainty. You know him best - if he is inclined to manipulation, chances are he's playing a game he wants you to play take advantage of emotionally, much bigger and knows exactly what to do to make you think that you he misses.
