In life, we all experience a variety of trials - from the wonderful ones to the less desirable and painful ones. But they all shape us into the people we are here and now, and that's why we know they happened for a reason and helped us become what we want to be. We have prepared 4 ways for you to know that everything happens for a reason.
1. Now we know what we don't want
It hurts to remember people, which are us hurt– let it be about former friends, partners or colleagues. However, it was the painful experiences that helped us find out, what in relationships we don't need and to which characteristics we have to be careful with people in the future. Now we know exactly what you are we want our loved ones and we know to evaluate, who cannot have a place in our lives.
When we look back at past relationships and find out what we have with them disturbed, can be better let's put it into words, what are ours needs. We understand why we used to feel the way we did alone and unheard of and we know how to ensure that this will not happen again.
Now you know what you want in a relationship Photo: Arina Krasnikova / Pexels2. We are clear about what we want
But we did not only gain from past relationships and memories painful experiences, but also nice moments. Even if someone relationship it didn't work out in the end, it can help us, for example, to know what is the most in a relationship we appreciate it and what a future partner or friend can do us the most cheer up. The past can hurt, so it's important to look at it from a different perspective positive angle and we pull from it moments, which we do not regret. Delete we just can't, so there's no reason to bother with hers painful parts.
Many times we can grateful for happy moments, while also understanding that our life is now different and that a certain person will most likely never be part of it again.
3. The past helped us become who we are
Throughout life we are growing and se we learn. Experiences not only help us to find out what our desires are in relationships with people, but because of them we also know who we really are. Many times it is right after the end we glimpse some relationship or life chapter deep inside and rediscover our own hobbies, goals and ambitions.
We can also use our experience to work with them we help and we advise to those closest to us and we find it in ourselves compassion, which we may not have known before. It is clear to us that the world is not painted in black ones and white shades, but it is rainbow, from which we can gain something new every day.
Your past helped you become who you are now Photo: Antony Trivet / Pexels4. The past brought us to our present
Has it ever happened to you that you are something strongly wanted, but it happened time and time again that you got the chance slipped away out of hand- and then you ran into something much better? Life sometimes works in ways that we don't fully understand at first, but in the end it turns out that we were meant to be all along. the right direction. You may have found yourself in unwanted situation, but that's when you met yours the best friend. You may not have been able to get to desired jobs, and then a better one appeared career opportunity. You may have mourned the departure ex, but we wouldn't have known without him current partner.
That's why it's important to you trust the universe and keep it deep belief, that everything happens with reasons and that no trial means you should to give up.
