Respect and love each other!
You've probably been told by someone or read somewhere that one of the most important things to learn in life is not to waste your time and energy on people you can't make happy. And they're right - no one has done it before, and you won't either!
Don't try to be available to everyone. This desire literally borders on madness, because in the end you will become everyone's enemy, but especially your own. The only thing you can do is be someone who makes people feel good in their presence, to see that you appreciate, respect and encourage them.
Learn not to waste time and energy seeking your rights in the world. Don't feel sorry for everyone and don't cry over someone else's fate. Stop taking on someone else's worries. You have to give what you think you can get first, and then it's only a matter of time before you get what you need and want.
When you focus your time and energy on creating a corner where your personal peace will be a priority, you will give up everything else. Learn not to waste time and energy on other people's opinions. Do they ask you for your opinion, look at what you want, or pay attention to your feelings?
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It is not selfishness to protect yourself from the emotional and mental predators of this world, it is the law of survival. Respect yourself and find in life the dignity you deserve. A peace with which you will be happy to wake up every day and move forward towards your goals.
Learn not to waste time and energy on other people's stories. You don't observe what others do or don't do. Don't concern yourself with the wins and losses of others. Don't dwell on the mistakes of others. The only thing you can do is be an example to others.
When you shine with your life, your contribution to someone else's change is greatest. If you use your shortcomings to try to change the shortcomings of others - you will achieve nothing.
Learn not to waste time and energy on what is out of your control and suddenly you will focus only on what is… and change will be inevitable.