Love is a lottery. You can "hit" a woman who will break your heart or your soulmate. You never really know what the person you've chosen is like (you know, you can't see inside anyone's head), but there are quite a few indicators that the girl you've chosen is the right one.
Modern relationships differ in many ways from those of your grandparents, but they certainly have one thing in common - the inevitable worry or desire that a woman, with which you plan the future, right.
If you want to succeed, then you have to be pay attention to these three golden indicators.
It presents an intellectual challenge.
At the beginning of the relationship, you were probably in the clouds too – all you could think about was hugging, kissing and admiring each other. Back then, you didn't have time to talk about atomic physics, global warming and politics, to be caricatured. A woman must challenge you mentally or rather, her intelligence must constantly stimulate your brain.
You know that even your animal in the pants, which is a little wild at the beginning of the relationship, will calm down, and sooner or later it will become important or even more important for you to have a person by your side with whom you can you talk on deeper topics.
They both want the same things in life.
Even if all other factors indicate that your relationship will be long-term, you must also match in your habits plans for the future. Talk about your career outlook. Do you both want to have children? Are you planning to move abroad? What are your views on sex, sharing household chores and living expenses?
If you have a completely different view of your future, there are only two ways: do it a compromise, which will make you happy, or else break up. At the end of the day, when you go to bed together, you should go to sleep without a bad conscience and feel that you are living a fulfilled life. If you don't feel it, you know something is wrong.
Ambitious and working woman
If you're at the beginning of your love journey, you probably don't even think about whether she's your woman ambitious and thinking about his career. And it's fine that you enjoy other things, but you'll have to start thinking about that sooner rather than later. Don't get me wrong, it's not about how much money she makes and what your sweetheart does, it's about the fact that she has ambitions, is interested in things and is ready 'contribute to the house'.
You don't want to work from morning to night just to make money for the two of you, while your sweetheart is lying at home, on the phone all day, waiting for you to hand everything to her on a silver platter. You can't plan the future with a woman like that - not even in material sense (investing in an apartment, car, vacation...) nor in emotional, because her laziness will quickly start to bother you, she will have less and less understanding for you and will probably demand more and more.
There are certainly many other signs that indicate that the woman you're planning a future with is right for you, but we've highlighted three golden ones that we think may represent the biggest stumbling block in a relationship, it is difficult to correct them in the later stages of the relationship and indeed they prove that love is not enough.
