Bastards, bad guys. A perennial theme in modern romantic films. Do women really fall for bastards? No, but to those who take the first step.
The men we name bastards they tend to be confident, not afraid to speak their minds and take what they want. These are the men who will try to seduce you.
They will send you the first message. They will not hesitate, they will be direct. They will look you straight in the eye. They will hold your hand and kiss you.
In the so-called good men it doesn't happen often. Only exceptionally. They often subconsciously expect to be chosen just because they are good. They have no flaws, they are honest, friendly, well-off. But they don't make the first move.
And this is what women lack. It's not about whether you have a troubled past or have been hurt. Women want to feel wanted. They want a man to call them without hesitation or fear and not to give up at the first obstacle.
Women want men to ask their opinion, that they are respected and treated as equals, and that he decides where they go on their first date.
They are attracted to a man who shows that he is attracted to a woman, both sexually and intellectually. A successful date requires a game of seduction and a man who knows how to compete with her for leadership in that game.
Men, if you've been wondering what you're missing and why you don't have success with women, even though everything is fine with you - maybe that's your problem.
You never thought that you could be better, that you should give more of yourself, because you felt that you were a good enough opportunity on your own. Nothing comes by itself, nothing.
And indeed they may be women are from Venus and men are from Mars, but that is no excuse for anyone not to try to understand the other side. The touch of these two opposites takes place in the game of conquest, and the first step must be taken when a man from Mars first steps on Venus. And only those who are brave enough to explore the unknown territory will succeed in conquering the woman.
