Men will never tell you everything. They will tell you only a few of their hidden sexual fantasies, others they may be ashamed of. Which ones give him the most headaches?
Men tend to be open about their sexuality and talk about it without shame. Nevertheless, some sexual fantasies they prefer to keep it to themselves. What are the most common desires of men, which he will most likely never ask you, but quietly expect?
A scene from adult films
Ah dear man, that will never change, will it? It is no secret that men are fascinated by such films and that they like to watch them. They should also be looking for an incentive for hot games in their private intimate life. Few will admit that sometimes they would like to act out a scene like this, but they are embarrassed to admit that the inspiration came right from adult films.
Dirty talk
Saying sexy phrases during sex excites most men. Just one sentence will ignite his imagination and sexual desire. Many people think that "dirty" conversations are equivalent to vulgarity, but this is far from the case, but it is true that both partners must be prepared to use "obscene" vocabulary. Men are usually turned on the most when women describe to them exactly what they want at that moment.
The woman herself "in action"
In a survey by a popular dating website, men admitted that they love watching their partners play with themselves. There is something extremely exciting, exciting about it... Men also said that they like it mainly because the woman then looks very sure of herself, knows her body and is not ashamed of her own pleasure.
What do our sexual fantasies say about our personality?
Sex education teacher and researcher Justin J. Lehmiller is in his book Tell Me What You Want studied the sexual fantasies of more than 4,000 people from all walks of life – heterosexuals, members of the LGBTQ community, people of all political and religious affiliations. He discovered that our sexual fantasies, or at least part of them, reflect our personality traits and characteristics. "Our fantasies show us something very important about who we are and where we are at a particular moment in our lives," Lehmiller told HuffPost. While many female and male fantasies overlapped, women's sexual fantasies were more intense and daring. "Men's fantasies had much more emotional content than the results of the first survey indicated. Women's fantasies were much more adventurous than we anticipated. We seem to have a lot in common when it comes to things that turn us on.” adds Lehmiller.
SO WHAT DO OUR PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS SAY ABOUT OUR SEXUAL FANTASY?
Extroverted people mostly fantasize about threesomes and other forms of group sex, as well as various forms of consensual polygamy, such as swinging and polyamory. Introverted are the ones who have the most kinky or corrupted sexual fantasies, and the reason, according to Lehmiller, lies in the fact that it is more difficult to define the type of sexual relationship and therefore they try more.
People who are considered as acceptable, in bed they mainly give: care for people in daily life also creeps into intimacy.
People who are conscientious, are very detail-oriented and are the ones who schedule sex and have nothing against "empty" sex. Still, "empty" sex is not the same as bad sex: recent study she found that men and women who belong to very conscientious people have more satisfying sex than everyone else.
People who are neurotic, they are under a lot of stress. For them, the ideal sexual experience is one that is soothing and involves the person they have romantic feelings for.
And if you think there will be people who are open to experience, accepted all, do not be mistaken. If there was an award for "weirdest sex position or how you twisted your wrist", we'd win it.
