First dates are a great opportunity to show yourself in the best light. But all too often it happens that you fall out of the game at the very beginning due to unwelcome mistakes, nervousness and insecurity, because you reveal too much of your true self. We reveal to you ten things that people do on first dates that only turn people off for further meetings. Of course, the most important thing on a date is to be yourself. This is the only way you will find someone who will be a great partner for you.
1. Inappropriate attire
They say that an impression on a person is made in the first seven seconds of a date. Although you want the person to focus primarily on your personality and inner beauty, it is the outer appearance that creates the first impression. So make sure you're on a date appropriately dressed. Regardless of where you are going, the most important thing is that the clothing does not reveal too much, because you will immediately give the wrong impression.
2. Food overload
If your first date involves food, and you're terribly hungry and extremely excited about your portion of food, pay attention to the person on the other side of the table as well. Your eyes they should not be stuck to your plate, look at the person you are talking to and don't just focus on the food.
3. Polite conversations
To avoid embarrassment on a first date, it's best not to talk about politics, religion, or other hot topics. If the conversation turns to such topics, do not dominate the conversation, but leave the floor to yours as well potential partner.
4. Too much alcohol
A drink or two is perfectly acceptable on a first date to loosen things up a bit. Too big amount of drink but for your date, it could be a sign that you have a hard time facing reality, or you might even be an alcoholic.
5. Use of the telephone
Between texting, posting pictures, and liking, it's hard to keep track of the outside world and the details that will impress your crush on your next date. Put your phone in your bag and focus on the person and the date.
6. Don't criticize
If the person you're on a first date with turns out to be a vegetarian, then by no means try to force her to order dishes she doesn't want to eat, or vice versa. No criticize theirs principles and don't try to convince them that you are right.
7. Go on a date alone
Although sometimes you would prefer to go on a date with a friend who could evaluate your potential partner, this is strictly prohibited. If you show up on a first date with a friend, everything points to yes you are bastards.
8. Overconfident
It is completely normal to be a little nervous, uncomfortable and tense on a first date. On the first date, try to find out as much as possible about the person, it is not appropriate, yes reveal all your secrets and boast of your life.
9. Ask and answer
Don't just give answers to questions, as this will stifle the conversation. The person will at this felt neglected, and you will give the impression that you are not interested in a date. Be sure to ask the person questions and give them a chance to introduce themselves.
10. Don't be pushy
You may have been single for ten years, but never give the impression that you are desperate for love. With this you will give an impression of desperation, and besides, the first date does not mean that the relationship will really develop into a serious relationship.
