How do you create a long, successful and happy relationship? These are 10 secrets to a successful relationship that no one tells you about.
A great many relationships begin very optimistically, because only then getting to know our partner and everything he does and says is sweet and attractive. But sooner or later, we come across a moment when our bubble, in which we are blindly in love, bursts. This moment, which happens sometime after the first year of the joint journey, is crucial for the continuation of the relationship. This is often when relationships begin to fail. Here are 10 ways to avoid it and create a long, successful and happy relationship.
Share your feelings with your partner
Maybe you weren't used to sharing your emotions until now, especially not with men, or you shared your emotions too quickly, which is also not good. But once you are in a relationship where you feel safe and see your future in it, it is it's crucial to be able to tell your partner how you feel. If both of you are not doing this, the relationship cannot develop. Therefore, it is necessary to share both positive and negative feelings. Did your partner hurt you with something? Tell him. Did he make you extremely happy with something? Tell him. It would be a great pity if the relationship fails simply because you do not know how to talk about what you feel, and it suddenly bursts out of you unannounced and starts a fight.
Share your feelings with your partner.Keep your privacy
When you're in love and in heaven, you want to spend all your time with your partner, which is completely logical. In a long-term relationship, however, it is extremely important that you in addition to time together, they also take time for each other. Everyone is still an individual person, which cannot change with a relationship. Especially if you move in together, you also need to give each other some privacy. This is the only way to prevent either of you from feeling cramped in the relationship. They also appreciate the moments they spend together more.
They share the tasks equally
Even if you don't live together yet, you probably still spend a lot of time with one or the other. At this point, you are no longer just a guest, but a part of his home, and vice versa. That's why it's important to be at this point set certain house rules and avoid potential misunderstandings. Let's face it, not always, but often, women do more chores around the house than men, which probably doesn't sit well with us. Therefore, talk to each other and divide the tasks in such a way that both of you will be at least approximately satisfied. Such matters are often the subject of arguments, which is a great detriment to the relationship, so avoid them in the future.
They share the tasks equally.Talk about money
Money is a very complex matter, but it is necessary to talk about it, because it will accompany you throughout your entire life journey. It is likely that by now they have somehow shared the costs, one paid once, the other paid, and at some point it is necessary to discuss how to proceed. review, how much each of you earns and how much you can contribute, and set some rules about paying. Do this as soon as possible, because after a certain time of living together, this can become a more problematic topic.
Do fun things together
When you've been together for a long time, you can quickly fall into a routine, so it's important to treat yourself to a date or try something new every now and then. The main thing is to have fun together. Every relationship sometimes encounters difficult moments, that's why it's important that on the other side it also has super fun and happy moments. Although obligations and rules are important in a relationship, you should never forget to have fun, as this is the only way your relationship will keep the spark throughout the years.
Do fun things together.Surprise him
The beginnings of relationships are usually very exciting, because something new is happening all the time and we are just getting to know our partner. But when we already know all the little secrets and parts of his soul about our partner, new things are even rarer. That's why it's important to they surprise each other every now and then. Of course, you don't need to prepare big romantic gestures, but something small is enough to brighten your partner's day. Even if it's just his favorite chocolate. But if your financial situation allows you to do more than that, take him to Paris for the weekend or take him on a romantic pampering trip for two.
Touch each other
Touch is extremely important for any relationship. Do you still remember the first months when you could barely keep your hands off each other? It is important that you try to maintain such feelings all the time, even if to a lesser extent. The physical connection is almost as important as the emotional one. We are not just talking about sex, although this is also an important part of a healthy relationship. The key is to maintain physical closeness and to hug, caress, kiss and hug each other often. These actions trigger a huge amount of positive emotions in us that keep us in love.
Touch each other.Respect your differences
It is a well-known saying that opposites attract, which is partly true. Of course, it is good to be with someone who is not exactly the same as us, because that way the relationship is more exciting and we can try something new ourselves, but at the same time it is good to catch up with our partner in the main life values and views of the world, because it makes it easier for us to function. But if that's not the case, it is it is extremely important to respect our partner's views, even if they are not the same as ours and therefore we do not understand them. Respecting something and agreeing with something are two different things. Therefore, even if you and your partner disagree about something, you must respect his opinion and never, but never, insult him.
Make plans for the future
Without plans, relationships stagnate. We all like to make plans for the good things that await us, so it should not be any different in a relationship. Look forward to spending time together, plan what you will do in the coming year and check whether your wishes for the future match. Maybe moving in together is coming, or are you already thinking about children and marriage? Either way, talk about it and look forward to what lies ahead together.
Make plans for the future.Talk to each other
Almost everyone these days has heard that communication is the key to a healthy relationship, as we can read this in almost every text that talks about relationships. Of course, we say this for a reason, because it really is true. What is a relationship without talking and sharing your thoughts and feelings? In the beginning, of course, communication is easier when we have a lot of new and unsaid things to say, but over time our topics are already exhausted, which is not a reason to worry. Make sure that you talk every day, even if only about what you ate today and what happened to you at work. It is important that you keep wanting to share things with each other. A partner must also be our best friend, to whom we want to tell almost everything. This alone is a sign that we are in a happy relationship that has a long future.
