Do you remember the movie Friends Only with Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake? If we learned anything from him, it's for sure that sleeping with a friend can have disastrous consequences - but it can also end in a fairy tale. If you have found yourself in a situation where your friendship has developed into something more, then continue reading. We have prepared 5 tips for you on what to do when you become more than friends
1. Clear up with yourself what happened
It's normal to be somewhat reserved about your emotions confused. Maybe your first thought is that you did error, which you must not repeat, or give yours friendship it won't be anymore the same.
We advise you to take it a few days, that with himself clear up, what happened. Focus on your own feelings: it was just about fun without obligation or you feel like your friendship could develop into relationship?
Find out for yourself exactly what you feel Photo: Dziana Hasanbekava / Pexels2. Talk to a friend
You may be tempted to sweep your act under the rug and act like it is nothing happened. We do not recommend this in any way: remember that it is yours a friend, with which you have had no problems so far sincere. So with him talk: that's the only way you'll get a sense of what his are like emotions and wishes. Maybe he's been rooting for you for a while romantic feelings, he may want to have a no-strings-attached relationship to continue, maybe he just wants to friendship... if you don't speak up, you won't find out.
3. Be honest
It's not the easiest thing for anyone to talk about own emotions, especially if he accompanies them fear, that the friendship would end because of them. However, in such situations, it is imperative that you are with a friend sincere. If, for example, you feel that he has aroused in you sparks, it may happen that the continuation of the relationship will be without obligation hurt. The same applies if you only want to friendships– in which case you need to make sure it has the same purposes your friend too.
It's important to be honest with your friend Photo: Gary Barnes / Pexels4. If necessary, step back
If your friend only wants socializing, but you feel that you have won over him romantic feelings, then we advise you to get away from the relationship a bit you move away. Yes- getting it without obligation is possible, but only if none of those involved dream of relationship. A person who feels for you sincere friendship, will your feelings understood and considered.
5. Leave room for a friend too
The same applies if you are friendships you want, and your friend has a desire for romantic relationship. That's when it's important to let him know that you'll always be the person he can count on gets carried away, but that you are ready to give it to him as well some space.
Maybe your friend isn't quite convinced, what are his wishes - in this case it is best to give it to him some time, that situation regions and your feelings clear up.
