Women sometimes use such methods completely unconsciously, and sometimes with pure calculation and a precisely defined goal.
What are the common situations in which women use sex as a weapon to blackmail their partners?
Examine behavior in public
Physical contact in public is not a bad thing, but only when you do not overdo it. If you overdo it, then you are using sex as a weapon. There are subtle ways of touching in public. You can touch his shoulders through his back or run your fingers through his hair, all of which are sexy enough. However, it is not necessary to literally jump on your partner.
You refuse sex if you don't get what you want
Let's say you've been together for a while and let's say the gentlemanly treatments he showered you with at the beginning of the relationship are slowly diminishing. He no longer buys you flowers every week, forgets to open the door or hold your umbrella here and there. He knows you're reacting by refusing to have sex with him and expecting things to get better. This is a typical example of using sex as a weapon, and it is certainly not an appropriate punishment.
You're angry, so you don't want to have sex
Almost the same case as the previous one. You've had an argument, you're still angry, and you don't agree to have sex. Consider the opposite. Reconciliation sex has a great charm, and with it you can effectively break the anger that you feel at that moment.
He didn't take your side
He said something that didn't sit well with you or didn't take your side of the argument, so he was left out of the evening's action. This is an example that happens very often. Many women deal with this situation by refusing sex, without thinking about having a conversation that could explain why he said what he said or give reasons why he doesn't share your opinion.
You challenge too much
Provocative underwear, movements that invite sex, then refusing sex, or even sex in which you leave him right before the climax... Intemperance in such actions is not good for you, or for your relationship. Don't do this if you want to be labeled a "coquette" and nothing else.
Too many sexy comments
This goes hand in hand with overly sexy behavior in public. A lot of words without actions is a sign that sex serves as a weapon for you.
