Like relationships, their endings come in all possible colors and shapes - if you've just ended a relationship and are grieving, we advise you to pick yourself up, because we've all experienced these breakups.
The 20s are the time for a full life, testing possibilities and romance - no two loves are the same, so their endings are also very different. We have summarized the seven most common ones that broke our hearts! How many have you experienced?
7 relationship breakups that we've all experienced:
First love
First loves are almost always the sweetest. At that time, our heart is still soft and intact, which is why such endings can also hurt the most. It's probably the hardest ending to a relationship you've ever had to go through in your life.
With a person who wasn't officially your love.
Nowadays, many young people resist stickers and pretzels. This is also known in romantic relationships. Even though they weren't officially in a relationship, ending a relationship can also hurt a lot. Maybe it's even worse if you pretend like you haven't lost anything important and you don't care.
When the time is not right.
Is he going abroad or are you in the middle of a period of life when a relationship is almost impossible for you? It's especially hard to say goodbye when you know that at another time your relationship could have blossomed.
With a person who just disappeared.
The result of the fast lifestyle, globalization and unclear relationships is that people suddenly disappear from our lives. This can be very difficult for a person who remains in uncertainty.
When you want different things.
In the 20th century, our preferences and way of life are changing rapidly. When they met, they had the same vision for the future, but in a few years it may have changed to the point where they can no longer align.
In a relationship, apart, in a relationship, apart...
Recognize this famous pattern? These breakups can be especially painful, because each new beginning gives you hope that this time will be different, and then you break up again.
The breakup of a relationship that you thought was funny a few years later.
Almost everyone dates a person in their youth who is so wrong it's ridiculous.