It's the same for men as it is for women! Making compromises is the foundation of any healthy relationship. There is no quality partnership without compromise.
It is important to know that perfect attitude it is not. Every relationship has a mixture of both healthy and unhealthy qualities. What makes a relationship positive is that each person is aware of their own positive and less beautiful qualities, and similarly accepts the latter in their partner.
In order to achieve this, it is necessary to set priorities correctly, i.e. forget about some things that you did before marriage.
1. Selfishness
If you were an only child in the family, chances are you are used to having things your way. But when you get married, it should no longer be just "I", but more and more "we". Also, forget the habit of always being right, because a breakup will be inevitable. For a good marriage, it is important that both are ready to compromise.
2. Bad behavior
We all have our moments of anger and nervousness, but no one can suffer hysteria every day over every little thing. Also, blackmail, outbursts of anger and shooting your partner with objects that fall into your hands are in no way the basis of a good marriage.
3. Unresolved conflicts
Problems with delay, emotional restraint and low level of self-control are factors that can kill even the deepest feelings.
4. Gossiping about your partner to strangers
There is no reason to tell your secrets and quirks to strangers. There are two main reasons for this - firstly, the partner will probably get angry, and secondly, society will change its opinion about him, as well as about you.
5. You only have money for yourself
The belief that a man is responsible for supporting his family has long been forgotten, so ladies, remember that your salary is not your personal income, but the family's income, and you should share everything with your husband, just as he should share with you.
6. Obsession
Caring for the person you love is completely normal, but when it turns into an obsession, it becomes unbearable. Give your partner time and space for his hobbies, hanging out with friends, reading... You don't have to be with him 24 hours a day.
